and off for the past year and half whom i originally did live with for a while but couldn't handle his lifestyle so I left. I now have to move and I thought I would move in with him but as soon as mum found out she called me every name under the sun because she thinks that I will be over him in 6 months. She said i was just using him for convenience. I thought I could see him and forget about the negative things and think more positive. I do have a good time with him at times when I do see him. I can't even listen to my self anymore because my mum is so overpowering. what do I do? :( I feel I will lose alot of self esteem moving home. even though its temporary.
2007-03-19 11:41:48 · 4 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Move in with a female friend temporarilly, or suck it up and move back with mom.......I agree, you'd be just using him.
2007-03-19 11:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, moving home is no fun... trust me... I'm there! I am 22 and moved in with my mom like 3 months ago... all of this was because of bad financial decisions that I have made (credit cards, care payments, etc., etc...) So I figured I had to just bite the bullet... swallow some pride and kick it with my mom for a while! Your mom might be arguing with you so strongly because she misses you at home.. or she could just be trying to be a little controling... mom's can go either way.. As for the boyfriend... I would not suggest moving in with him. I've been there and done that one too. Moving in with a guy is not a way to fix things, or try and make you like them... because in my opinion, when you move in with anyone, it makes you like them a little less... no matter if it's a best friend, or a boyfriend. Are these your only 2 options? I would do some searching, maybe you can find a roommate through one of those roommate searches.. or through friends or something. But my advice to you is not to move in with the guy.. date him maybe? Sure yeah why not? .. but not live together. If you must move in with mom, make sure you can get out of there within 3 months or so... especially if you are used to being more independent!! Best of luck to you... I hope everything works out fine... and above all... only you can figure out what's best for you-- not even your mom can choose that for you!!!
2007-03-19 18:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Candace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's insane to move in when you already know that you can't stand the guy's lifestyle. Move to your mom's or somewhere else. Look out for those looking for a sex opportunity. Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Neil L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just asking for trouble.
at least your mom really loves you.
sounds like you need a little butt whuppin' and consider that she wouldn't nag you so much if you weren't making such bad decisions.
2007-03-19 18:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋