This just sounds sad. I last had sex in October 2005 in a stupid effort to win an ex-boyfriend back. We were both virgins, he came too quickly (even after 3 sessions), I decided I still couldn't forgive him and moved to another city.
I haven't gotten any since I moved here, but I've fooled around a lot with one of my guy friends, and I think we are headed to the sex stage soon.
My question is that since I haven't gotten freaking laid in almost 2 years, will it hurt or be uncomfortable when I finally do? Also, condom suggestions are welcome since I can't be on the pill anymore due to hormonal issues.
I'm not looking for judgement, just want to know if it will feel weird when we do have sex. Cos I'd rather enjoy it than be all paranoid and awkward. Thanks :)
2007-03-19 11:32:48 · 6 answers · asked by ShilpaG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah from what I know it will hurt! I was in the same situation and for me it hurt worser that time. I mean I guess it depends on the person and who they are involved with also.
2007-03-19 11:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by chantol3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will prob hurt a little not as much as the first time but take it slow at first and then after a min or so it will feel normal and wonderful again like it used to. And he will be very happy because you will be so tight and it will be a great day.
2007-03-19 11:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by dovera1c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u r no longer satisfied together with his solutions then u ought to distance urself from him until eventually at last the time he can supply u some sturdy answer. If he loves u yet would not prefer to have intercourse with the u ought to the two question urself whether r u able that u can excite him. Or that's some psychological concern with him and u choose some extreme help as we talk.
2016-10-02 10:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the guy is really terrible and insensitive to your needs it shouldn't hurt.
Just be smart about it. Find a guy who you like, and who likes you. Use protection and lots of lube, and ENJOY YOURSELF.
2007-03-19 11:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the chemistry is right it will be wonderfull do not rush into it and do not show so eagered to give it out there is no rush you do not want to seem too easy.
2007-03-19 11:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by razorraul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that your hymen healed. Thus, it may hurt if you have sex now.
No one can really answer this question though. Try it and see.
2007-03-19 11:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anh-a-Le 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋