how can I became more talktive, more outgoing, flirty like!?

Question

im very quite, and have a very hard time meeting people. People really have to take the time to talk to me in order to get to know me really well. its hard for me to make friends and not even mentioned meeting guys!! i want to be more out/easygoing? how can i start, I am very shy/quite!!

Answer 1

Just relax and seek for fun all the time and everywhere. Go bowling, go to the movies, discover the world and it will open your vision and make you wanna enjoy things so much more. People will then be even more attracted to you!!

Answer 2

Just be yourself. Some people actually are attracted to shy, more quiet people.

But it sounds to me like you want to work on becoming more outgoing. I'd say, confidence is the key here! Act confident, even if you don't really feel that way inside. A lot of times even something as simply as making eye contact and smiling at someone, or taking the time to say hello when you walk by a person, can give off the impression that youre confident and willing to meet new people.

I think that if you practice trying to be more comfortable in interacting with other people, they will feel much more comfortable interacting with you. Try not to worry about saying something dumb, or not knowing how to act around people....just get out there and be yourself. Let people get to see the true you-- aside from the quiet, shy front you give off.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

I'm shy, but I hide it by acting crazy. I just like to say crazy things and after awhile I get comfortable and don't need to be so silly anymore. I, as a guy, will be at a party with some girls and tell them I have the exact same shoes at home, and then they'll either roll their eyes or call me a cross dresser or something and I'll roll that into something else crazy, like nah nah, there for my dog Poochie, she's 5' 6", a real monster. Eventually people either love me or hate me. I guess that doesn't work for everyone though.

Answer 4

If you just learn to smile and ask people lots of questions about themselves. Get them talking about themselves and be genuinely interested. They will think you are the best conversationalist around.

A question is even a great way to meet a person. If you are in line at the grocery store and the person in front of you has a lot of party supplies say "looks like you're having a party, what's the occation." Then is the person is friendly back, say "sounds like fun can I come."

You've got to risk yourself to get anywhere with people.

Answer 5

the first rule in making friends is be yourself! i know thats corny and cliche but its oh so true. ppl will either like u or they won't. thats life. start with joining a team or club. do something out of your norm. or u could even run for student government. even if u don't win, ppl will know who u are. if none of the above seem interesting to u, then find time to throw a party. have some of ur closest friends pass out invitations and throw a crazy (but not too crazy) bash. everyone loves a good party!

Answer 6

well i was like u when my dad and grandpa died but i had to take theropy because my family thought i was sucidal.. and i hated it and the guy said the only way i could get out of it was to open up to my friends and family and stuff.. and so i did now i am very outgoing never shut up and every guy is pretty much on my behind haha.. my uncles r all like man why couldnt she jus stay the quite lil gurl we knew haha... well yea but umm i would suggest u find a friend u think u could tell anything too and talk to them as if they were a teddybear(teddybears dont talk... best secret keepers i kno=]) and open up them and u will see how easy it is too open up to them..and for gettin guys to like u and stuff...

well if u want their attention..
act like u can do better than them.. act like u dont want them because the best analogy i have ever heard was...

guys r wit gurls like girls r wit purses...they want the ones they cant get but the ones they can they dont even pay attention too... girls want the purses that are too expensive... lol..

so yea and then when they do come up to u... have a friend wit u so it wont be so weird...good luck!!!

Answer 7

Well, start being friends with more people. Start talking to different kinds of people, so you can see that everyone is a little bit different, but quite the same. Then, once you get comfortable around people, don't be afraid to joke around! Laughing is very flirtatious.

Answer 8

I am also a very shy and quiet person, but I am slowly getting better at talking to people.

I find the more confident I am within myself the easier it is. For a shy person, confidence doesn't come that easily but love yourself for who you are and be confident that you are a nice person and people will see that.

The hardest part for me was to start conversations with people as normally I would wait for them to talk to me, which made me appear as rude. But I was just too shy to talk.

Good Luck

Answer 9

for 1 thing u can make an avatar so ppl can find out if ur a guy or a grl!if ur a guy then dont go to the girls let them come 2 u!well if ur a hot guy let them come 2 you!if not im srry 4 u!if ur a girl do stuff like sit in ur guy friends laps and let them touch u in "places!"theyll like that and ull no longer be considered quiet or shy!or wate if ur a hot girl do that if ur ugly i feel srry 4 u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!