hi I have a friend that likes me but i dont like her back. Idk if i like her actually. some times she can be a *****. Like one time i told her that i went ice skating with a girl i use to like ( every body even the girl knew i liked her) So she goes over to her and tells her off. But its hard to stay mad at her. Should i like her or date another girl. Tell me what should i do. Should i not trust her with my personal life. Sense the girl that i use to like invited me iceskating does that mean she likes me. Plz answer my questions.
P.S. I asked the same question a few months ago but didnt get good answers please help
2007-03-19 11:28:38 · 23 answers · asked by Mike P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You asked this question months ago and still have the problem? Sounds kind of surprising; yet I know how you feel. I would say make sure your friend likes you first, if she's somehow just being overprotective but she doesn't feel that way about you then date the other girl but tell your friend to back off.
If she (friend) does like you, then I would say date her. Usually, relationships that begin as friendships last longer and mean more to both people. Since she already knows you, you could probably judge whether or not you and her would be a good match and go on that. But definitely figure out whether she likes you first.
Anyway, hope it helps, sorry it's so long.
2007-03-19 11:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by elysionVAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since im a girl... I could probably tell you everything... The girl you use to like obviously likes you (since u went iceskating) and now you're caught between 2 girls.... hmmm.... i would say go with the girl that likes you now.. not the one u used to like... give the girl a chance.. maybe she will turn out to be the best girlfriend you have ever had. You might like the way things turn out. :) give her a chance! The other one might just use you cuz she probably thinks you like the girl that likes you now. You follow. Don't fall for it cuz many girls are like that. Trust me, I know...
2007-03-19 11:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by BlondeBabeBrii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the gurl who likes you have no right to do that type of stuff becuhz she ain't yo gf. just let her know wassup that you don't like her and explain it to her so she would get the idea. About the other gurl that ask you to go iceskating..think about how did you know her..are you guyz close? becuhz if you're close to her as a friend then itz a common invitation but if you guyz are not close then thatz a hint that she might be kinda interested in you...you just have to wait and see if she invites you to go out or anything like that again. so you just have to wait and see..good luck though
2007-03-19 11:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by done with this..good luck all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike,
No one can tell you what to do in a relatonship, you know in your heart what you should do. The only advice I can offer is to talk with the Ice Skater and see if she is interested in a relationship. The other girl is obviously the jealous type and if you decide on her you need to have a good two way conversation with her about her working on that problem.
2007-03-19 11:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by lonnierogers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE yourself be attracted to someone your not really attracted to! the girl that likes you and you say is your friend also sounds a little bit off to me. How uncool of her to go and tell the girl you really like off! I think you should stay away from her totally, she sounds as though she could at some point become dangerous!
you also sound like your easily lead and don't know your own mind. you need to not be a marshmallow and grow some backbone. Sit down in a nice quiet place and reflect on your life. what do you really like? who do you really like? what are you really interested in? what do you really want to do and with who? then once you make up your mind, go in that direction.
Good luck to you.
2007-03-19 11:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has you friend told you that she likes you? Or are you making a wild guess? Because if she told you thats she has feelings for you, just tell her nicely that you do not feel the same way. If she hasn't told you, just act like nothing has happened and that you do not know and ask your crush out. The worst thing that she (your crush) can do is say no.
2007-03-19 11:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a calm place and confront her. Tell her you do not like her "telling off" the girls you go out with. And give it time maybe she will change and you will start to like the new her. Don't jump into everything so quickly. Relationshipstake time
2007-03-19 11:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, she's jelous and really want's to be with you. But if you don't feel the same way and you know it's not gonna work then don't bother. If you feel there's a chance then go for it. It's cute the way she would wanna do that because of you. But i mean it's up to you. You have the power!! lol
good luck
2007-03-19 11:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Fairytale * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problems!! Some chicks like drama and like to let the man know shes there but she is syco hang with the 1st chick and yea she prolly likes you
2007-03-19 11:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by littlenick_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your life date whoever you want if you dont like the girl in the way she likes you than dont hurt her by going out with her because u dont really like her, Tell her that she's too jealous and to protective of you, and i think you should also say if i want to d someone i'm gonna, and if she cant handle that than say your friendship is off until she can prove to you that she can stop her jealousy and get over the fact you dont like her like that.....
2007-03-19 11:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋