I really like this boy, he is in the year below me, what do I do? I can take rejection, but I just want to get to know him. He is a really friendly guy. He talks to everyone and is always smiling anf being friendly. I say hi to him and I have spoken to him several times. Today he was walking past me and gave me a hi5, so we are kinda pal-y. But what do I do now? I had originally decided to forget the idea that we could ever go out considering he's younger than me and I'll be off to uni soon but, I dunno, I still feel that we could be good together and I really like him. We have many things in common but I just really want to get to know more about him. How can I do this?Him being in a different year makes things a lot more difficult because I see him less often than people in my year. I see him but we are always passing by. I never get the opportunity to really have a conversation with him because of the time. But I cant stop thinking about him. He is SUCH a nice guy.*sigh*
2007-03-19 11:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm, i used to have the same thing but im over it..lol well you could get close to his friends then gradually go to him and ask him his favorite sport, u noe guys stuff...lol or u can do the myspace-ing or chatting online...
2007-03-19 11:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shiv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know. It's a little difficult to show him that you're interested without making it too obvious because you don't see each other much often. So, in a few words you might need to get more direct about your intentions as to him. Flirting is a little risky but if you can handle rejection... I'd say go for it!!
2007-03-19 11:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by maggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you're never gona get anywhere if you fear rejection. be prepared for anything so you won' be all that disappointed if he says no. first ask if he likes you back. if he says yes, good for you now the relationship will build and later is things are going good you should ask him out. if he says no, at least now he knows you like him and if you keep seeing eachother he's probably going to start to like you too. if he continues not to like you then im sorry but try to be really good friends anyway.
2007-03-19 11:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Klizzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend has the same problem. i kno this is soo middle school but go on a group date to like the mall or something. he can bring some buds and you can bring some. talk to him more there, share some laughs and see if he has any interest.
2007-03-19 14:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is too young for you.
i say this because most guys are 2 years younger than girls emotionally so it is better to get with a older guy.
either ask him out or just get on with life
2007-03-19 11:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time you see him ask him out.He sounds nice so why miss the chance.Good Luck
2007-03-19 11:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone that cant keep their mouth shut, that way when they blab to this person, you will find out if they are interested or not.
2007-03-19 11:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
IF you really like him, ASK HIM FOR A DATE..............
He can only say no, or use abuse you. Whatever, you will be satisfied and can then move on instead of dreaming.
2007-03-19 11:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pass by him talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same way then move on.
2007-03-19 11:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Fairytale * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act a bit more flirtatious when youre around him, nothing gets a guy to not notice you when you flirt with him =]
2007-03-19 11:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋