I am 16yrs old and basically since I was born I've been living with my grandparents, I've lived with my mom off and on, but not anymore she is the worst mother anyone could ever have, she doesn't take care of my sister and I my dad,aunt and mostly grandparents take care of me and she doesn't have an excuse as to why she is the way that she is, like shes not on drugs or anything, and she doesn't give us money or anything and when tax time comes around we don't see a dime, and my grand mom doesn't say anything cause she says its herr daughter ...but I still get what I want most of the time, but it's not the same cause its not from my mom, for christmas all she got me was a cheap $20 poncho and a cheap i'll say about $40 iPod dock...and about 2 months ago I told her that I hated her and she didn't exist to me anymor and she told me good to keep it that way...and she recently got ingadged to her personal trainer who she has only known for about 4 months...What do you think of this situati
2007-03-19 11:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by B.Gisele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She wasn't mature enough to be a mother when she chose to be one, and is STILL not mature enough to accept her responsibility as a mother!! MANY MANY girls make babies for reasons far from the right reasons. Giving birth in no way MAKES anyone a parent either. Your "mother" does not deserve to be respected by you, she has done nothing AS a mother!!! Your Granny knows this woman is trash - it hurts her too much to talk about it. No need to HATE the woman, that takes energy and it makes YOU feel bad. Try feeling pity for her bad choices, her ignorance, her selfishness and her missing out on knowing you. She WILL end up regretting what she lost out on, and she WILL pay for her arrogance in remaining selfish. You should thank your Granny every minute of everyday for being what your "mother" refused to be. Granny is a good kind person worthy of your time and energy - keep your word and do whatever you can to keep "mom" out of your thoughts and out of your life. Pity her if you must feel anything - she is really one sorry excuse of a woman.
2007-03-19 11:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just dont make good parents .
your christmas presents might not have been what you wanted but were still worth a bit of money, $40 isnt that cheap.
I assume your parents are divorced. For now just focus on what you have in terms of family and your schoolwork. Once you are older you may be able to see your mother as another adult , and form some sort of relationship , or at least get her side of the story.
2007-03-19 11:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow some parents can't afford to give their kids food and yours got you a $20 poncho and $40 iPOD dock. Let whatever anger you have for your mom go, trust me it's only hurting you.
2007-03-19 12:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by ty4all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things (material) don't matter in life and you learn that as you get older. You are only 16 and you have a long life ahead of you. The important thing would be to really talk to your mom about how you feel and try to have a relationship with her and if you try and try and try... then maybe it was not meant to be.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 11:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Phone girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Mom has some serious issues. Try seeking some kind of family counselor and have a meeting with you, Mom, the counselor, and other family members to see what's going on in her head.
2007-03-19 11:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you live with relatives that love and care about you. Maybe someday you will understand why your mom let you live with your other relatives. For now, she is your mom and you should love her. She loved you and cared enough about you to see that you are getting the right care. She could of given you up for adoption but she didn't.
2007-03-19 11:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's your mother, but move on with your life. It seems she doesn't give a damn about you, so why worry about her? You have your grandparents, and they love you. Just let your mom go. In due time, she'll regret it. You always reap what you sow.
2007-03-19 12:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to pay attention that. She's your mom, it incredibly is why. discover ways to speak respectfully to tell her that her "mumbo jumbo" is stepping into you, and you need her to restrain a sprint with regard to that. while you're respectful on the subject of the communique, i do no longer see why your mom does no longer pay attention. of course, p.c.. the splendid time and place.
2016-10-01 04:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want alot for a sixteen-year-old.. Stop whining and Trying to get into your mother's business. Maybe if you stop telling her what a lousy mother she is, she will split her tax refund with you (Did you help her earn it)? I would suggest you count your blessings and stop picking on your mother.
2007-03-19 11:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience at least you have some one it could be worse i grew up in a foster home god wants you to count your blessings he does things for a reason to make you a better person
2007-03-19 14:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by just_4_fun130 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋