Well i have 3 frinds, madi, coyrtney and hannah. they had been my friends for 3 years, then somehting big happened. to he honest i dont really know what happened but there saying i betrayed them and im "changing" they have been tellngi me i have turned into a brat. so they all ignore me now and i trey to talk to me, and they say dont ever talk to me or look at me again, i hate you, and stuff liek that. but htey were my best fridns!!!! i lvoe them and i still do. and dont say get knew friends, becasue to be honest thats crappy advice, THEY WERE MY BEST FREIDNS AND WANT THEM! I have mede new friends, but its not them!!!! whay should i do?? its been a while now!
2007-03-19 11:13:01 · 13 answers · asked by briezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow I can totally relate to this... my best friends are made at me for dating my ex again because he cheated on me and they dont like him but he has changed and they dont even kno him and their judging him but yea anyways.... ummm i would have to say jus try and keep talkin to them they will come around if not then they werent really your best friend but yea anyways... thats what happened wit me.... and now they sorta talk to me well ttyl..
2007-03-19 11:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be friends with people who treat you that way? It isn't a question of whether or not you like/love them, but whether you like the way they are treating you. Give them some time; leave them alone. They may come back and they may not. Make a new best friend. Yes, it hurts to lose someone special, but it hurts more to lose them and know that you can't ever have them back because of something you did. Just give them the space they want for however long it takes.
2007-03-19 11:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Check Spelling is in the top, right hand corner of the page.. use it.
Breaking up with friends is as bad as breaking up with lovers, people just don't realize that. You are going to have to move on, sorry but that's just the way it is.
You're obviously young, and when you are older this probably wont matter so much, so study, work on school, and you'll end up better than they are.
2007-03-19 11:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. These things ALWAYS happen - trust me. Especially in middle school, everyone changes.
They say you've changed..but haven't they changed as well? They're not acting very friendly anymore are they?
Sometimes it's better to just forget those immature people. Find better friends! I understand that it really hurts that your so-called best friends are treating you this way, but be strong and be happy!
2007-03-19 11:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anh-a-Le 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...you really need to get over it. Someone told a whopper of a lie and it was believed. And of course you've changed! You're obviously growing up! But please, don't take this personally, and I know thats easier said than done. But believe me...its best to move on. You can't go back. Besides, living good IS the best revenge ;)
2007-03-19 11:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by No name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, kiss them on the lips for a million.5 seconds, wait and spot their reaction, after kiss step lower back somewhat, in the event that they conflict to kiss you lower back then they have been hiding thoughts for a lengthy time, in the event that they think of its wierd say you didnt be attentive to what to do
2016-10-19 02:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your closest friend alone just with you, sit her down and ask what the heck they are all talking about. apologize for whatever it was you did or didnt do. tell her how this is really hurting you and you just want you guys to be friends again. whatever you do, dont be mean back.
2007-03-19 11:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Klizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do change with time. Leave them alone; don't push. Meanwhile you go ahead with your own circle of friends. You can't force friendship on anyone so move-on.
2007-03-19 11:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them. asked them what you have done wrong and if there's anything you done wrong. asked them to give you a second chance. everybody need a second chance so tell them, friend stick with friend no matter what big things happen.
2007-03-19 11:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Vu H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to convince them that you want to talk to them and work things out cuzs its pointless to throw ur great friendship away 4 no reason at all.
2007-03-19 11:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by ~I Love Allen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋