Okay me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old, and I know thats young, we pretty much never get to see each other outside of school because my dad thinks that i'm going to get played and all that my boyfriend wants is sex. But my b/f says that he doesn't mind the whole sex thing, but he'd rather not risk losing our relationship because he thinks that he really does love me. I really do believe him, because we talk ALL the time, and i'm not joking, I'm always on the phone or computer with him when i'm not at school. We've been together a month, why would he stay with me knowing that he probably won't be able to see me much, if he just wants to get in my pants?! How can I make my dad see that this guy is real and not like all the rest?? I believe that I actually love him and he loves me, and even though we're young, we really want to make this last, but my dad wants me to break up with him! And I'm not going to do that!
2007-03-19 11:06:50 · 18 answers · asked by lexis-gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heyya. Even though you are 15 years old you still know how your heart feels. Your dad is only looking out for you. Believe it or now, he was once 15 and knows how guys think and act. He is only looking out for his girl and seems like the bad guy to you right now I know. Just give your dad time and your relationship as well. I'm sure he will come around once he is sure that you boyfriend has true intentions and does indeed love you. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-19 11:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not all the same. And guys mostly do focus on sex but that doesn't mean your boyfriend is thinking about it! Most guys think about it because of the way you dress. If you wear short skirts, short shorts, and shirts that show your belly then the chances are he is thinking about sex. Many guys want a girl who will dress modest. guys are very visual so be careful of how you dress. And If you don't dress that way then your doing fine! Besides dressing modest Guys are different most guys are mature and know how to Handel a girl right and others are immature! And let me tell you that just because you guys talk all the time doesn't mean your in love. I'm not saying your aren't you might be I had a friend who had a boyfriend and they e-mail and talked on the phone all the time and they were togather for 11 months and then he broke up with her after he said I love you! All I have to say to you is Follow your heart! Your heart is the most honest! If your heart says to break up then brake up and if you guys are truly meant to be togather it will come around again but just remember Follow Your heart and don't listen to anyone else because your heart will tell you the truth better than anyone you love!
2007-03-19 11:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by made2luv33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes all guys are the same. Yes all he wants to do is have sex with you. The old 'I don't want to have sex' line is classic. He is only talking to you with the hope of having sex someday soon. He does not love you(you both have no idea what that means anyway).
Your Dad knows this....he was a 15 year old boy once.
2007-03-19 11:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont say Love. I mean not even i under stand love yet. He doesnt love you yet and you will know when he does but not yet. And he may want to get in ur pants but if he likes not loves you as much as he says that wont be a prob until about 17. And about your dad well the only true answer to that is to make ur bf suck it up and meet him and show him wat a nice person he really is.
P.S. - Still dont say love you will know about love when you are older i would know. I mean one day you love cake and the other you love ice cream. Ask your self what really is love.
2007-03-19 11:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15, yes, Most guys are only after one thing. Its only been a month with him and you. That isn't love. Listen to your dad, he is a man and knows what he wanted when he was 15. If you were to withhold sex, would your bf still want you.
2007-03-19 11:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys are the same. If you can maintain a relationship with this guy without sex than stay with him.
When your young sex can really do a number on you, if your not emotionally ready, and at 15 your not ready to have sex.
2007-03-19 11:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes all guys r exactly the same. We r made in a factory and dropped off at the hospital by the stork. Dig through ur boyfriends hair and u'll find a tag that says 'Made in China'
2007-03-19 11:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by random bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being friends. invite over to family gatherings, picnics if people do things like this as a family anymore but for all things, don't go against your dad's wishes, its a cruel world out there...
2007-03-19 11:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is a guy isnt he?? THen who better to know the answer to that. Hes been there and done that,,,so he knows and is only trying to protect his daughter.
2007-03-19 11:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys who act like that really only want your panties so listen to your dad
2007-03-19 11:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by wiz and skinz fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋