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He's hurting as am I, but I don't want to cause him more pain.

2007-03-19 11:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by JennyC 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

No. You are under no obligation to "do" anything for his birthday since you're no longer a couple. You broke up with him, you did it for a reason. If you should run into him, wish him a happy day and then keep going by and go on to do your own thing.

2007-03-19 11:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by No name 2 · 0 0

You'll caused more pains if you even show up or give him a present. Once you folks have decided to break-up, cut all communications and move on. This is short-term pain and long-term gain. It serves no one any good clinging on when its over.

2007-03-19 11:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0 0

I would still get him a birthday card and a gift if possible. Nothing romantic, but something small and friendly to make his day a little brighter.

2007-03-19 11:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Nope

2007-03-19 11:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0 0

You broke up with him.Just remember why did what you did.No one makes that choice with out a good reason.Leave him alone,he'll be alright.It will hurt him more if you contact him on it.It will make him remember that you know him and still broke it off...

2007-03-19 11:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0 0

I wouldn't. That would might give him some false hope. You don't want to act like you're still a couple.

2007-03-19 11:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if your still friends then go for it, but if the two of you are at a rough spot and cant be in the same room, i would avoid him at all costs tomorrow...

2007-03-19 11:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Soccergrl77 2 · 0 0

The best thing you can do is stay out of touch.

2007-03-19 11:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0 0

Why you're not dating him anymore you should just move along

2007-03-19 11:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by wiz and skinz fan 4 · 0 0

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