are a lot different than me. He seems to have had different taste in girls before me. Should I be concerned? Does this mean that I am not the kind of person that he thinks I am?
2007-03-19 11:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it doesn't mean you're not who he thinks you are. talk to him about it, it might be interesting. maybe he has changed since then, after all those girls aren't around anymore for a reason.
2007-03-19 11:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that you are different, do you know everyone he's had?Never believe all the negative that is said about an EX.That comes from a person that went thru it.A man does not compare women,ever.What kind of person does he think you are,and I wouldn't worry about a thing.Be careful with him if he's had a lot of EX's there could be a pattern he has..Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I asked my bf once why he picked me since I'm so different than the girls he usually went for, and he said that he was completely over that phase and I was a way better catch. If I were you I wouldn't stress about it too much. People grow and mature, and hopefully that's why your bf is with you now. As someone else already said, he's with you and not them, so there's obviously a reason why the two of you are dating. Plus, if you're still worried about it you could always ask him! :P
2007-03-19 18:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
I would think that maybe he felt that he needed someone different in his life , and that someone was you. So , maybe its a good a thing that you're not like his other girlfriends because maybe he left them for the same reason and you're entirely different and not a copy of the last girl. He could have seen other aspects in you that he found intriguing and added a good touch to your personality , physical features etc.
2007-03-19 18:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by IcyTears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's ex's are his ex's. They are ex's for a reason. Apparently they are not for him and you are... have you thought about that (you are with him now). The hardest thing to do that girls do all the time is compare themselves to their current boyfriends ex's....trust me.....I'm doing that now. Comparing ourselves to their ex's is not going to get us anywhere. Don't think that you are not the kind of person that he thinks you are, ask him what he sees in you...you will learn from him what he likes about you. Maybe he likes you because you are the exact opposite of his ex's. You never know.
2007-03-19 18:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in a Relationship 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't ever be afraid that your Boyfriend has dated all types of girls....... It just means that there are all types of girls and no one will ever be the same, so guys think that a girl with a personality and look that is different is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 18:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by THE BAND GEEK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposite attracts thus do not be too concern. Be yourself! You don't have to try to be someone else when you're not. He has to love you for who you are and not what he wants you to be.
2007-03-19 18:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not with them anymore, is he? Maybe he decided that kind of girl was not what he wanted and didn't work for him. He's with you now so just go with it.
2007-03-19 18:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, if he is not interested in you, there are lots of other men who will take interest in you and treat you like a princess, hang in there and enjoy the ride for now
2007-03-19 18:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by bperez2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..maybe thse girls just didnt work for him
i think he likes you for who you are <3
2007-03-19 18:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋