My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little bit longer then a month. He used to call me everysingle night and now he only calls me once in a while. I see him a little bit at school but hardly because we have no classes together. I havent been able to hang out with him because hes been grounded. He just got off grounding today. Last friday I was mad at him b/c he said he would call the night before and didnt. We got in a little arguement on friday and I tought he didnt like me anymore and someone told him that. Apparently that rly upset him. He said he still does love me but one of our rly good friends asked him how him and I are and he said he doesnt know & that he prolly wouldnt break up with me but he doesnt know. He's been rly moody too but im assuming its because hes sad that its not working right now. Were gonna talk tonight what should i say? I really want to be with him a lot. How should I start the conversation? Thanks <33333
2007-03-19 11:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I broke up with him. He said he didnt feel the same way about me. I had a good cry but im totally fine now. Thanks for trying to help anyways.
2007-03-19 23:33:42 · update #1
I EAT 10s for Dinner...
Just remember..things arent that complicated. Men and women over the long term tend to get bored in all relationships. Your either the person who gets bored or the person who is boring.
This is your Answer:
You have been dating and seem like you want to continue dating. He's getting bored so its time to spice it up ALOT. I can tell you how to keep things spiced for YEARS,,,in your situation...there are two things men love: 1. BAD GIRLS (b/c we're bad) !!! 2. GIRLS THAT ACT LIKE OUR BRATTY 6 YEAR OLD SISTER (we like these girls because their difficult, hard to understand (mysterious-haha), and seem to ALWAYS get their way). So your goal should be to act like one of those type girls...in an EXTREME way (bad boys love extreme girls). Now, 2ndly start acting like a little girl...you shouldnt be fighting...unless your tripping him while hes walking past you..and laughing at him.
Hes not moody. Guys arent moody. We get bored. Hes starting to get bored...BUT if you do the above you wont be boring anymore...and he'll like you again. Do the ABOVE and give him some distance. Just remember this isnt a real relationship...its a thing called the....DATING GAME...and its fantastically fun. Remember the opposite to...if hes not playing all these fun games with you anymore...find another guy FAST...b/c since your in the game...other guys will find you MORE ATTRACTIVE (wonder why all those other guys have been hitting on you since you;ve been dating this guy??). So if its almost over...either spice it up or get another guy fast (a few weeks after breakup and less and less guys will start hitting on you)
2007-03-19 11:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, understand that guys go through a "withdrawal" stage.. It has nothing to do with you. They just need a little bit of alone time, or time with only their family, friends, etc. You just gotta give him some space. I realize you want to spend every waking moment with him, but some guys feel smothered by that. If you just give him his space, he'll appreciate you more for it and he'll eventually come back to you. Men and women deal differently with their emotions. Women like to talk about it, men don't. All you can do is just support him and respect his space. Don't worry. If you do this, and he's really into you, chances are when he comes back to you, you two will be even closer than you were.
2007-03-19 11:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by chicyuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.... i am sry to hear you are having problems..... i had a similar situation a month ago what i did was just tell my partner that you want to be with them and that every relationship has problems, ie arguments, moods, anger moment... etc. you need to ask him how he feels about the relationship and that you are hurt he doesnt call everynight. (he should atleast call to say goodnite).
hope this helps....goood luck
BC
2007-03-19 11:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your acquaintances are correct. he's stringing you alongside, wanting his cake and eat it. i does no longer have confidence him if he cut up together with his cutting-edge lady chum and went out with you, because of the fact he's probable to do a similar to you too until eventually he has grown up. you will only would desire to recover from him, locate some thing to interest you and take your concepts off him.
2016-10-01 04:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is be truthful. I mean if he understands and u guys work it out than you guys were meant to be together.
2007-03-19 11:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth tell him how your feeling tell him what youve heard and all that let him know what all is going on. itll all work it out it seems like you both really like each other and care for each other so im sure itll all be good.
2007-03-19 11:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there are problems going on in his life and he can't seem to set things straight. when you talk to him ask if theres anything wrong or if he breaks up with you why?
2007-03-19 11:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by luvbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be totally honest with him.
2007-03-19 11:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and open with him and don't hold nothing back
2007-03-19 11:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight out ask him wat is goin on with you and me and tell him how you feel and ask him if u all can start over and become closer
2007-03-19 11:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by ~I Love Allen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋