I'm Getting Married!?

Question

Any suggestions for:

1) Where to go on honeymoon
2) what to do on honeymoon
3) how many people should be invited
4) who should cater
5) what brand/color tux should i wear

i can't wait to get married. this person is definantly someone special, since she has my baby.

Answer 1

1.) You should check into Sandals. You can either go to Jamaica, the Bahamas, or St. Lucia. It's all inclusive so you won't have to worry about anything once you get there.

2.) You could swim with the dolphins, relax at a spa for a couple of hours, horseback riding on the beach, snorkel, scuba dive, just spend quality time together.

3.) You should invite however many people that your budget will allow. You don't want to go into debt because you invited people to your wedding that you barely knew or you felt obligated to invite. It also depends on how intimate you want your ceremony to be. If you want just friends and family then limit it to just that. You can do whatever you want.

4.) You should shop around for your caterer. Just look in the phonebook and start calling for prices. If you like the price then see if you can go have a little sample. Your caterer will probably be the most expensive thing at the wedding. So this may also be a deciding factor on how many guests you may want to invite.

5.) You should go with the classic black tux with a white vest and tie. If your bride is wearing ivory then you caould match her in ivory. Your groomsmen should compliment your bridesmaids too. Like if the bridesmaid dresses are green then get your guys green vests. This really looks great together and in the pictures.

I hope you have a wonderful wedding. My wedding is in June and I cannot wait to marry my special someone either. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Yay, congratulations!

If I were you, I would go to Europe for the honeymoon. Perhaps Italy? It's a very romantic. This you should discuss with your fiance though. Ask her what her dream honeymoon would be like.

What to do on the honeymoon...? Have sex. Take lots of pictures.

Invite however many people you want. It depends on whether you want a big or small wedding. Again, it would be best to discuss this with your fiance.

I'm not sure who should cater. Do you both have a favorite or special restaurant.. maybe where you both first had dinner together? If not, I would ask married friends if they have any recommendations. The venue for your reception may cater so it may be a good idea to check out good venues.

Wear a classic tux. Something comfortable. As for the brand, I don't think it matters.

I don't agree with the person above me. Just because you have a child doesn't mean you can't have a traditional wedding with her wearing a white dress and what not. It's your wedding..do what you want :)

Answer 3

1. any place the two of you can spend some quality time ALONE. If you can get grandma to take the baby 3 days, make it that, if its a week, do that. If grandma freaks out that she can't handle it go someplace that has babysitting or take a babysitter (seriously take a sister in law or someone and put the $$ into giving them their own suite nearby so that you have some time alone).
2. What to do? Enjoy each other. Plan some outdoor time and some quiet dinners (you will be back to reality soon enough). Are you winter or summer? If you are summer and like the beach do that. If you are winter and can't take the heat, get a cabin in the woods, go horseback riding. Do at least one new thing neither of you has ever tried...dont schedule every moment.
3. Only you and bride for h oneymoon! lol Wedding.....let the bride decide, its her day....and then let the reality of the budget dictate what changes need to be made.
4. Who should cater is anyone but you and your immediate family. Shop around...if you are saving money check with the local Columbans centers and call banquet halls from the phone books...there are some privately owned clubs that give great all inclusive deals espeically if you are willing to get married any day but saturday.... if sat is your thing then look for owner owned and operated places.... or bring in a caterer and just rent the hall or arena (there are lodges that are beautiful at campgrounds, parks and resorts--for them it is often off season and you can get a great deal on a beautiful room...if you have a fireman in the family find out if they have a hall). Have fun! Everyone deserves to have a wonderful wedding day.
5. What color do you look good in? some guys look fantastic in black some navy? let your bride dress you.
6. I know y ou didn't ask....but the guests just want to see that the two of you are ECSTATIC AND HAPPY. they also want to eat a good meal and relax. the rest of the wedding hoopla is just that....and meant for you and the bride...dont get sucked in by the hype of violins, champagne flutes, chandeliers, candellobras, etc. your guests will not remember them the day after the wedding....UNLESS of course that is what you and your bride are into....
God Bless (BE SURE YOU HAVE A PLAN FOR JUNIOR THE DAY OF THE WEDDING.....immediately after dinner its time for the two of you....and s/he needs to go home with a trusted aunt or friend so you can celebrate.... )

Answer 4

First of all, you can have a traditional wedding with her in a white dress! Just because you have a baby already does not mean she can't wear white, do it the way you and the bride want it. As for the honeymoon, make it special, romantic and sweet...somewhere the 2 of you can relax. Invite family and close friends, it is nice to have those who truly care about you around on your wedding day, don't invite anyone who gives off bad vibes. Interview some catering services and decide with your bride who is best for the job. Black tux with vest and tie to match the brides dress looks great, brand doesn't matter. Congratulations!

Answer 5

congratulations, you sound very sweet and very much in love. it doesnt really matter where you go on your honey moon most people dont get out of thier room much.and i think you already know what to do on a honey moon you've been practicing.people for your wedding i think should be close friends and family much more meaningful this way.check with local caterers and they will give you some ideas on what they do and how much its gonna cost.as far as what to wear a black tux if you want a formal wedding if not a regular suit will do great in black however.

Answer 6

The only suggestion I have is about your tux. I think it looks really classy when the groomsmen's wear black tuxes and their vests & ties match the bridesmaids dresses. You wear a black tux, but your vest and tie should be white to match the bride. Everything else needs to be discussed with the bride and determined by your budget.

Answer 7

Congrats, finally! Should have done this BEFORE baby came!
Well, no honeymoon since the two of you have a baby, so that's out.
Since you already have a baby, you won't be having a fully big traditional type wedding with the big white dress and tuxes, so she can wear a pretty dress and you a nice suit. After the small ceremony, just have family and close friends to your home for a meal.
Congrats again!

Answer 8

Congratulations!
1. Disney World is where my hubby and I went
2. Whatever you want
3. Close family and friends (don't make it to big)
4. interview local caterers and decide which is right for you.
5. Black tux w/ white vest and flower.
Again, Congratulations♥

Answer 9

well for one we know your getting married cuz it is on the married part
uh.. it dosent madder where u go .
get ur freak on u know thats all ur gonna do anyways
I dosent madder about nething else u will get married again
Oh well

Answer 10

1) Europe
2) have sex
3) to the honeymoon? just you and your bride
4) someone inexpensive
5) Tommy is nice