How do i convience my best guy friend that im already having an affair with to leave his Girlfriend for me?

Question

How do i convience him that im the one that he should be with? He already said that the sex with me is better-so why is he still with her?

ps its the best sex of my life we're talking about here!!!

Answer 1

Honey, this situation sucks. I had an affair with a guy who wanted me to leave my man so that he and I could get married. Fortunately, I didn't, but let me say this. I think the reason he wont leave his girlfriend is because he still cares about her and feels that there is still a chance with her. That was the reason I didn't leave my boyfriend, and now we are happier than ever. I know that you think you really care about this guy, but what right do you have to ruin it for them? Yes, the sex may be better, as it usually is with an affair, but that is probably all that is better. Thinking back about it, I see an affair, mine or anyone else's, as rather selfish. It goes back to wanting something that isn't rightfully ours. If he really wants to be with you, he will leave her. If not, then maybe you should move on.

Answer 2

Right, because you really want a guy like that. He's using you while he's still with his girlfriend. Pop quiz: If you were his girlfriend, do you think he'd be any more faithful? No, he'd use someone else while staying with you.

This guy's a player. Leave. It's better for you to find someone that actually cares about you and isn't telling you lies just to keep getting in your pants.

Answer 3

Tell him "her or you"... Otherwise, lose him.

Remember he might be using you for sex and nothing else... You never know. If he chooses her, leave him at once, forget about him and move on... NO CONTACT at all!

Either way, at least you will know where you stand in his life.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

Are you serious! Why would u want someone that's unavailable? Not to mention if he leaves someone for you - he'll leave you for someone else!