My GF and I trust each other completely. We have casually discussed adding a third party to our sexual relationship, and agree that if it did happen, it would have to be a girl, and someone that my GF trusts. My GF just revealed to me that her best friend is looking for someone she trusts to have a three-way with. I am for it, provided she shows me complete STD test results beforehand. My question is: has anyone done this before? How should I divide my attention? What kind of complications can arise? How do three consenting people even set this type of thing up?
No idiotic religious ranting, please. Thanks.
2007-03-19 10:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Gnar G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and your girlfriend are serious like talking marriage serious you shouldn't do it at all.......if not......don't plan it just go with it ........you will figure it out
2007-03-19 10:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is a tempting, yet dangerous, game.
It is imperative that you show preference to the girl you love. If she feels for a second that you "prefer" the other girl, it is going to become problematic. You have to be cool with the new girl, don't go crazy over her (at least not more so than with your girl!). Also, show your gf extra affection verbally, throughout the entire evening, so she feels secure that no one can "take her place" with you.
As for setting it up, let it happen kind of spontaneously after a night of partying together. If you plan it, I think it might feel kind of awkward. During the course of the evening, just kind of flirt with her (both you and your gf), you know, she will get it, since the initial converstaion has already happened. Good luck!
2007-03-19 10:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by F 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
3ways cause problems. even if ALL 3 of you think it is what you want. you may want it real bad now and think that since your love is so strong nothing can come between you 2, but you have to realize that your going to be having sex with another person and SO IS SHE. so unless you both wouldn't mind your partner having sex with this other woman, without you being there, i would advise against a 3some. Jealousy ALWAYS comes by for a visit, it may take a while to show up and you NEVER know when it will come back either. if you decide to go ahead and do it, the 3 of you need to get together to talk things over so everyone can put all their questions on the table before anything happens. as far as the actual act... go with your feelings. start off by kissing one while pulling the other closer. things will eventually take off and go where it goes.
2007-03-19 10:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 04:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure before and after you show your girl very special attention....reinstate how much you love her and want to try all types of news things with her. Because she may think it is a good idea now, but may get jealous during or after. I would divide attention equally, but try and never leave your chick completely out of the scenario..... be physical but watch what you say with the friend. And make sure to shower your chick with tons of extra love before and after, ask her how she feels about it afterward, and even if you are thinking of the other woman...tell your girl she rocked your world!
2007-03-19 10:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its all gona end in tears. your gf maybe up for it now, but when she sees you naked with her best friend things will change. You have to be so secure in your relationship with your gf. And what about the other girl? does she have a bf? how will he feel about the fact she is doing her best friends bf? and her best friend. Dont do it! Its sick and your gona risk your relationship for a bit of fun!!
2007-03-19 12:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My hubby and I have done this and it's a blast and really hot! Just go with the flow, don't worry about what you are doing to who and how, just let things happen and it'll be awesome♥
2007-03-19 10:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing you need to do is grab a glass of cold water and throw it on your face, this will wake you up and bring you back to reality. Secondly, quit yanking so hard, it won't make it grow longer.....lol
2007-03-19 10:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
go with the flow, don't try to make them happy just do what they want and have fun
2007-03-19 20:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you already dont know then you must be dreaming of a 3 some
2007-03-19 10:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋