I'm a gay man and I've been in a relationship with my partner for 2 years and find it extrememly difficult to stay "good". I'm questioning whether I'm happy or not and do not want to ruin a good thing over something that may be normal to feel. But on the other hand, I want to be happy and do not know if I'm staying just because it's easier and I won't hurt my partner. Instead, I feel as if I'm hurting myself instead.Does anyone feel at times that there must be "more out there?" Are my feelings normal?
2007-03-19 10:27:41 · 2 answers · asked by Steve H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just don't love your partner. If you did, this question would never come up. You're looking for a reason to bail. You were first rationalizing your wandering eyes by asking if you were happy, but now you're steadily moving towards rescuing yourself from the relationship because you're hurting yourself!
lol.
I don't know you - this is just a very honest opinion. =)
2007-03-19 10:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bored? reality set in?..7 year itch so to speak....one doesnt necessarily have to stay not to hurt the other....set down and discuss this with your partner and see what can be done about it.....the other person deserves happiness the same as you...be gentle when you express yourself........and good luck...
2007-03-19 17:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋