Dating for several months. He increasingly gets on my nerves, but has very great quality traits: dependable, loyal, affectionate, good father (has a child). Am I focusing on the little things too much? Do I need to get over it or do I not like him?
2007-03-19 10:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First question i have is has there been any unresolved arguments in the last past months ?Sounds like something is bothering you if there is talk to him so you can move on and enjoy your relationship.But if there is nothing bothering you maybe you've just been spending to much time together try and take up a hobby you Can do with a Friend or by yourself .You still seem to know hes a great person and has allot of good quality's are you still attracted to him?If that is a yes try and move on it seems like allot to give up just because he get on your nerves also ask your self if you have problems with commitment maybe your trying to sabotage your relationship .hope i helped.
2007-03-19 10:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by kkwants to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the chemistry between you two. And think too, is this the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with? Will I be happy with him? It's really good that he's a good father and a good man, but does he make you happy? All the way around? If you can't honestly say yes to this, then staying in the realtionship may cause you to live an unhappy life. Do not make this decision rationally though. If the answer is no, then take some time to investigate your feelings. Talk to him about the things you do not like. Men are willing to make sacrifices just as women... but if we don't know what you want, then it makes it difficult to remedy. Please don't assume that we can read minds. Don't be afraid to discuss these issues with your boyfriend and see if you can't come to some solution. After doing this, if you're still unhappy, take some time apart for a little while and see where your feelings stand. Hope this helps.
2007-03-19 17:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Steve H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him anymore. Anybody could have admirable qualities but if you don't enjoy the time you spend with that person then it's not gonna work. Sure everyone has moments in the relationship where the other person could be annoying but if this becomes increasing, then maybe you should end it. BUT, some couples get very annoyed with eachother not because they're not compatible anymore but because they just need a timeout. Sometimes you just need some time apart to realize that the person you were with was really special so don't make any rash decisions. Remember, nobody's perfect and bf's (in your case) will always have annoying traits. Try talking it out and maybe you guys could agree to compromise so he could stop annoying the hell out of you. From the sounds of it, you almost have Mr. Right. From what my girl-friends have told me, there are not a lot or "almosts" out there, only "barely" Mr. Rights.
2007-03-19 17:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mag1527 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know if you like him , after being with someone for awhile thigns get a lil same ole same ole or should I say old . Maybe u 2 just need some space to sort out your feelings
2007-03-19 17:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to think about what is important to you in a relationship. If he isn't giving it to you, then its over. Maybe you should just take a step back and asses the situation and decide if you are just being petty. You are the only one who can answer your question.
2007-03-19 17:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by bamagurl722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back and look at the big picture.
2007-03-19 17:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are annoyed by him you more than likely don't like him intimately. Being friends would be of best interest.
2007-03-19 17:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? How can you tell if you don't like someone?? Your brain will tell you (and since your brain is you, you should know)! If your brain is telling you "I don't like this person any more", then you don't like that person. Your brain is smarter than you think.
2007-03-19 17:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel the urge to vomit when around them then that's a good sign.
2007-03-19 17:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he treat u
2007-03-19 17:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋