So, my boyfriends best friend always tries to get between us, am 14 and so is my bf and his friend. Whenever we walk together he purposely goes between us. Is it because of Jealousy? I know he doesnt like me, is he mad i hang out with my own bf??
2007-03-19 10:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably is jealous he doesn't have a girlfriend to hang out with. Also he probably misses his friend. Try to get a friend of yours to talk to him or tell your boyfriend how you feel. He could fix it, but I don't know if you can.
2007-03-19 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% jealousy! Men can be very territorial over their friends. My boyfriend is 30 and they don't get any better LOL! He moved in with me a couple of months ago but before that he lived with his best friend.
When I took turns to stay at his house his friend would do his best to get in the way and tag along at every opportunity.
The best way to handle him is to charm him and work with him rather than respond to his competitive approach to winning your boyfriend's affection. There are two reasons for this - you'll not often win over a friend and secondly he's more likely to lighten up on you if he can see you're an alright person and not out to get him by taking his friend away.
Make the effort and chat to him - if he comes between you pay him a little attention by chatting to him - he may back off a little then. Your boyfriend won't mind as it'll be nice for him that the two of you get on.
2007-03-19 10:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's jelous. He thinks you are getting between him and his best mate. You'd be pretty pissed off if it happened to you.
He's too young to realise that men need female as well as male attention so you'll need to take control of the situation. Make sure your bf has enough time with his mates but also one on one time with you too, as well as enough group time with the three of you and whoever.
Its a difficult balance to pull off, but do not get into the trap of trying to stop him seeing his mates. I have many friends that I now never see because they are with their girlfreind and now rarely goes out.
2007-03-19 10:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Girugamesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is jealous maybe you can hook him up with a girl so hell leave you guys alone if your boyfriend cares about your feelings hell say something to his Friend and maybe you guys can have some alone time .but also remember that guys need to hang around there Friends too are you giving him space so he can hang out with the guys?good luck!
2007-03-19 10:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by kkwants to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes 14....so immaturity falls into play.
He mite be jealous of his best friend. You should tell ur b/f you wan to spend more time with just him.
I'm sure he'd want to be w/u too.
2007-03-19 10:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably upset that his best friend is spending so much time without him. your boyfriend needs to make sure he is balancing his time out so you and his best friend are happy. I hope things get better for you :)
2007-03-19 10:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous but your boyfriend has o be the one to tell him that there is our life and me and my girlfriends.
2007-03-19 10:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either thinks your muscling in on his mate or fancies you
2007-03-19 10:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is madeu r hangin out with u
2007-03-19 10:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋