My fiancé and I have been engaged for 3 weeks. We have know each other for over 2 years. We started dating seriously about 3 months ago. At the very beginning of our relationship we were dating and having sex. I became unsure of the relationship and we became friends. I didn't have sex after the relationship became friends because I was unsure of things and I didn't want to use her. Was that wrong? Things changed and now I love her very much and she feels that same. We are engaged as I said and everything in our relationship is great, except that our sex life is lagging. She says that because I stop having sex with her way at the beginning, that she started seeing me in a different light. Like a friend. She also felt like I was a goody 2 shoes as she calls it because I didn't want to have a friends with benifits relationship. Now that's is in her head and it's preventing her from feeling comfortable having sex with me. Does that make sense? What can I do to change things?
2007-03-19 10:17:46 · 3 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOUR SITUATION IS SUPER EASY:
dont worry about the issues. first your saying your not comfortable....first thing is be comfortable with yourself. second....start the sex life up. Dont woman like to have sex in relationships? She said she wanted you as a friends with benefits. Your situation is so easy. Next time she comes to your house..hang out with her..flirt etc. Then ask if she wants to see this new piece of art you bought for your room. NEXT GO TO YOUR ROOM! (you should be grabbing her hand already) Then sit on the bed, and take the paiting or art of the wall and sit really close to her. (The environment is telling her..hes showing me art..but deep down inside shes loving the fact that shes about to get fu-kd.) Then, put the paiting back on the wall. She will still be sitting on the bed. Go up to her..smell her neck softly and then sit back down. Then get back up..smell her neck softly again...and whisper in her ear "you smell comfortable". Deep down inside this will make her feel like your her protector (which since your engaged she will want to feel), is comfortable with you, and is about to get banged. Next get up..turn off the lights..and get down to business. Your relationship will be back on track and your sex life will be going again!
Feel free to ask any questions. This is 100% Guaranteed. Just remember..hey im about to play this game...and this chick is going to love every bit of it...be comfortable...this is a game your playing and girls love games (expecially games that get them banged).
2007-03-19 10:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be engaged after only three months of serious dating, you guys havent got to know a lot of things about each other yet, sounds like this relationship has problems already, and a marriage isnt going to fix them, take some time (a long time) to get to know your fiance before you take the plunge into marriage
2007-03-19 17:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for a romantic dinner, and let it happen from there.
2007-03-19 17:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋