I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months or so,and he treats me very nice and also we have soo much in common and he says the sweetest things to me,and im just wondering does my boyfriend REALLY means it when he says "I love you".
2007-03-19 10:17:29 · 31 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he says "I love you" a millions of times to me whenever he has to leave or what ever.
2007-03-19 10:41:24 · update #1
Heyya. It all depends if he expects things when he says it. Sometimes guys can be cruel by saying "I love You" just to get some. Why not ask him what it is he loves about you. That should give you the answer for sure. If he says a bunch of bull or hesitates well maybe he is not for real. Good LUCK!
2007-03-19 10:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem w/my boyfriend. Around 3 months or so he started telling me he loved me. Like when we saw each other or when we said good-bye on the phone. Seriously, it weirded me out for a while. There's so many things you two don't know about one another. So, no I don't think someone could be in love after only knowing one another for a few months.
But, I think that may be an opinion question. It's almost like asking if I believe in love at first sight.
But ha, my bf that said he loved me oh so much ended up hitting me and now is trying to get w/my ex-best friend while I really don't like.
If you're young, think through things before you make any decisions.
Good luck...
2007-03-19 17:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to answer a question this early in the game. Only the person themselves know the answers, you should just be very open with him and ask him, I care a lot for you do you really love me? He will answer, what you have to figure out is if you feel the same way. Sometimes we know by the first time we meet a person there is a connection. Other times we are not sure or do not have enough experience to know ourselves. Take care Heather
2007-03-19 17:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if "he" personally means it when he says it...but if you are wondering is it possible to mean it after 3+ months, well, it can be true to a certain degree. It's not the kind of love that you have after years of dating but one can love in a sense after a few months.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 17:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a girl, but Ill submit my answer to this one.
I told me current Girlfriend that I love Her, and I really ment it. I had truely strong feelings about her, and she felt the same way.
For us guys to say we love a girl, they either really mean it, or they are just looking for some action in your pants. If they say it more than once, you can bet that they really do love you.
Also another test is to get them to say it in public. If they can do that, then you know they are telling the truth
2007-03-19 17:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by TEFMLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the English language is a derivative of many more complete languages. while we only have one word to describe "love" the Greek's have 4 different words with separate meanings but we would say that every definition is correct. so when he says he "loves" you; find out what he means. Intimacy, passionately, as a friend, as you love a brother/sister... or so on.
love is not an emotion only, it includes commitment, self-sacrifice, intimacy, passion, & more than my feeble mind can put to letters.
2007-03-19 17:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Obi137 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure anyone will be able to give you an accurate answer on this one, everyone feels a different kind of love. the love you and your boyfriend will share is going to be like one in a million. if you're doubting he does, try not saying it back maybe? as dumb as that does sound. just trust me you'll know.
2007-03-19 17:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Darby B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man ever really "loves you." All they want is in your pants, and they'll say anything to get there (or stay there once they're in.)
If he really means it, he'll still be there after you've been married 20 years, had 3 kids, and you look more like your mother than you ever want to.
2007-03-19 17:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if u know thhat he really loves u like if he is all clingy and always calls u and brags bout u but thats not my point like if he told u he loves u then he probably does mean it cause it took my bf (now ex) 6 months to say he loved me and we went out for a year so just trrust him wen he says that he loves you wish u the best of luck
2007-03-19 17:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by {{i ♥ muh prince}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Age is the only thing that can really tell. Do you really love him? If you really love him, and you say I love you.. and he says it I LOVE YOU.. spells it the same way, and says it out loud in front of his men.... Then he means it
2007-03-19 17:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋