what should a husband do if his wife doesnt listen to him at all.?

Answer 1

Apparently it may seem one sided. To your question some may think, you are being unfair to her and that is why she is behaving like that. But I have observed in some cases that wife become absolutely refractile to any suggestions and feels that husbands have no right to interfere in whatever she does. I know it becomes difficult to convince that she has been wrong at times. This is probably due to some innate reason. It is possible that she wants to hurt your feeling and that of your parents or that somewhere you did not conform to her wishes or did not do enough to her parents or brother or sister.It could also be that she does not like you per se. Or that she is interested in someone who is more alluring to her sesibility and is more humourous, jovial and manly. Analyse where is the real problem and be frank with her. You tell her how much you can comprise and where you can't. if she does not adjust and treats you as doormat and cares a damn, then get rid of her sooner than later. It may be hard decision, but to live a life of disgrace would be too humiliating for you.You will feel your individuality and freedom returned to you once you have outgrown your sentimentality.

Answer 2

First question is does the husband listen to his wife? If he doesnt do what she tells, then y should she do what he tells? Get your priorities right. It should be a mutual give and take policy between a husband and wife. Stop dominating. It only leads to the other person becoming adamant. Listen and the spouse will also do the same. Give respect and you are sure to get respect due to u.

Answer 3

The question is quite vague but suffice to say if the lines of communication have broken down then it is time you set about repairing them. Now if you are alluding to something which means the wifey is up to no good then you have a couple of choices: Sit back and say nothing, whine and moan, talk it over till the matter's resolved or hit the road Jack and don't look back.

Keep in mind that she is your wife not your pet to be told what to say, do or think. She is the one woman in the world you should be able to talk with and to about anything and everything under the sun, if not then see the above choices.

Answer 4

Honestly, write it down. Write it on postits and put them on the bathroom mirror so she will see it. Write on a piece of paper and put it in her purse where she can't help but see it. If she questions you why you're doing this advise her that you keep trying to tell her things and she never listens. If she claims this isn't true then ask her why else would you go to the trouble to write it down. If she still is difficult about this advise her if she doesn't listen to you then you will stop listening to her or else suggest counseling. If this still doesn't get her attention then mention that maybe you should find someone who will listen. She may have chosen to use this "not listening" technique to avoid having to deal with things you are bringing up. You may have to use some tough love to show her that you won't be playing this game anymore.

Answer 5

Try writing her a note and put it in a card. Catch her off guard by doing something she would not expect from you. If that doesn't work then more than like she doesn't think you have anything worthy of listening to. Give her a suprise and up and pack an overnight bag and don't tell her your just leaving for one night. Go stay in a hotel. The next morning call and tell her she needs to listen to you or else. Sometimes you have to shake things up.

Answer 6

Nothing. because she loves her that is why she is able to do this. Husband is companion not father that wife has to listen to him.

Answer 7

How long have you been married? Just steel yourself and stop advising her. Obviously someone else is advising her. Most probably her mother or friend. Don't know how can you win her confidence and respect.
If you have been married for long, then it is a difficult situation. But if recently married, then there is hope.
Right now, keep a low key, wait and see.

Answer 8

Try to reach out her and her problems with giving her an ear to her problems. Action should be taken to rectify it. But if was nowhere a solution then last choice which most probably an unplesant thing.

Answer 9

Start listening to her. Be a bit quieter. She will eventually become curious as to why you aren't talking her ear off. If you constantly nag she is tuning you out. So do the reverse.

Answer 10

Buy her a copy of "The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands" so she doesn't wonder in 7 years why you left her.