i am 25y/o male. I really like this girl that i have known for a few years. Last year we started hanging out alot. I eventually asked her on a date but said she was busy at the time. A few months pass and we started becoming really good friends. I later heard from a close of mine that this girl i liked had a boyfriend. No one knew she had a boyfriend up until we started hanging out. Even though i have never told her that i liked her she knows i do because of our mutual friends yet she still hangs out with me twice a week. when i dont see her for a few weeks she emails me asking where i have been. Alot of my friends have been telling me to just make a move. I respect the fact that she is in a relationship so i am affraid to make a move and ruin our friendship. Before we started hanging out, about 5-6 years ago our mutal friends wanted to hook us up, but i was always shy. All our friends would always tell me that she had a thing for me. What do you think i should do?
2007-03-19 10:07:02 · 2 answers · asked by scrillalp21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
another factor to this is her best friend who i have known just as long. Lets call her Jane. She is cousins with my best friend. Anywho..her friend tends to add fuel to fire. Jane tells me how the girl i like gives good massages but not to tell her or ask her about them. Jane also tells me that her friend loves it when guys speak spanish to her. I am fluent in spanish. jane also says that the her friend (the one i like) didnt want jane and i "talking" to each other via email or phone. But now shes cool with it. I asked Jane once if her friend was involved with anyone and she just kept avoiding the question.
2007-03-19 10:07:31 · update #1
About 5 months back i met her boyfriend. We greeted each other like gentlemen. Later on that night we talked a little about ourselfs. He said to me something like " i finally get to meet" I was a little shocked then he said "when i call my g/f she usally says that shes with you" and " she is always talking about you" i didnt know what to say so i just tried to be a diplomat by not causing anymore tension then their was. At the end of the night we shock hands and that was it.
2007-03-19 10:08:29 · update #2
the latest part to this is that my best friend is having a wedding in vegas. At first this girl was not going to go. My friends and i convinced her enough that she already booked the flight with her best friend too.
So all of us are going to be there for 3 nights.
any advice would help thanks
2007-03-19 10:11:17 · update #3
last note. she is going to vegas w/o the b/f.
2007-03-19 10:23:02 · update #4
Just be her friend until she makes it known she wants more.You don't want to get involved in a three way relationship.She has a b/f for a reason.If it's meant to be it will happen.
2007-03-19 12:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell u like her i know how u feel its the same whit a guy i like but i say u should just take it slow make her relize that ur the one she likes i say u dont wont to loose her so just take it slow kay
2007-03-19 10:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by shortee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋