He calls his house home, and says stuff like do "we" have this at home, etc. He's been in his house since October 2006. And in the last three months or so, I've been at his house...going home maybe once a week, twice if he needs up staying with me. Then there are times, when I get out of work he mentions going home...but I have to wait for him because I don't have a key to his house.
2007-03-19 10:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by ana_3878 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to be slick about this. start off with first things first, since you dont even have a key, it would be extremely presumptious to ask to move in. ask him for a key first, let him see you wont freak out about the commitment and then let him come to the decision of asking you to move in, after all at this point it is HIS house. but dont come right out and ask for the key, tell him you want to clean something up for him, or tell him you want to suprise him with dinner or something when he comes home from work, and you'll need a key to get in, as long as he doesn't ask for the key back after you suprise him, your in the clear, hope it helps!
2007-03-19 10:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely wait till he asks; let the men initiate this type of stuff. I've lost a couple good men by initiating things myself.
And YES! Moving in before marriage post-pones marriage......just some food for thought!
2007-03-19 17:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to tell him something like this " since we are allways together - dont you think u should give me a key for the door to our home? - besides it would be far cheaper for both of us if we share houserent instedt of paying for two places"
His answer will let u know if his really serious or not - best of luck to u
2007-03-19 17:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by leifp2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bring up the subject of living together and talk about how you both feel about it. Depending on how long you have been together maybe the first move should be him giving you a key.
2007-03-19 17:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically speaking, those who move in before marriage end up breaking up more often. Is this what you want? Perhaps you will want to maintain separate residences so that you can always retreat to your own place if things turn sour. Since you do not say anything about the relationship itself, I have to err on the safe side, so I would say, don't move in with him.
2007-03-19 17:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by kayork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get suckered in, what's the hurry, he has his home and you have yours. that's the way it's supposed to be until you BOTH decide you want to live together IN MARRIAGE. Then you get a house together.so simple and nothing to worry about when you do it the right way.
2007-03-19 17:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by gone! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who has the best house and the best stuff.
2007-03-19 17:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm......I guess if you want an answer to this you'd best get off the pot and ask him.......good luck...
2007-03-19 17:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋