oK well ive dated alot of guys and liked alot but my actual 1st love just broke up with me bcuz of my exfriend telling him i was using him when i wasnt and i was bout to kill her we were going out for 9 months and so i really miss him its been a month now and i like some1 else but i still cant get over him he was so perfect and the friend that told him that was the one that set us up together so i dont no what to do and i cant get over him
2007-03-19 10:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by cherish l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you can try telling him that you weren't using him and that you really love him (if you do) and if he loves you tell him that if he loved you he'd trust you when you told him that you weren't using him, unless you were
2007-03-19 10:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Darby B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not going to want to hear this, but time. Thats it. 9 Months is long enough top get very comfortable to get used to having someone. A good rule of thumb to follow is take the length of the relationship and divide it in half, thats how long you should give things before you concider talking to someone else and looking for a relationship. If your not over your ex, it wont be fair to the new guy you have a crush on, you wont be totally into that relationship. :) Good Luck.
2007-03-19 10:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by melindiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not exactly sure but I think the reason you can't get over him is because He was your first love. i had the same problem when i broke up with my first boyfriend. so i know how you feel. things will get better. Just keep your hopes up.
2007-03-19 10:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by sharaea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you will never get over your first love. The memory will stay with you forever and you may also stop loving him. But you will end up meeting someone else who is better fit for you and you will fall in love with them too.
2007-03-19 10:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was the only one that you felt true love for.
P.S.: Your ex-friend probably just wanted to see how sad you were when he broke up with you.
2007-03-19 10:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should give it some tome the more u rush the worst it gets
2007-03-19 10:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your x friend really did u bad. im sorry that happend to you, but ur bf should of not believed ur x friend, if it was really love, he would of believed what u said thats stupid what she did. if i were you i would try being friends with him again or try to be with him again good luck!
2007-03-19 10:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to get over your first love. but I would talk to him and if you do love him tell him! If its ment to be he will come back.....
2007-03-19 10:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Michelemomof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋