I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.
She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.
She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.
Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.
2007-03-19 09:40:03 · 24 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.
Her statement about never falling for her has thrown me off... what do you think? Could this all just be a friendship? Or is she setting me up and planning to crush me.
2007-03-19 09:40:11 · update #1
She is VERY insecure and unsure of how to act - she digs you for sure - but do you think you are ready to be her teacher? Do you have the will and desire to work with her ups and downs while she learns to be something she has no clue of being? Look at her as if she is a new puppy - and don't forget that means mucho patience, tolerance, and responsibility. YOU have to be everything she isn't, or you may teach her all the wrong things. I've taken on that challenge, and don't recommend it. Too energy consuming and no guarantee they will respect your knowledge.
2007-03-19 09:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one. The way you describe it she likes you. I think she may be lacking a bit in security by mentioning that you would probably never fall for her. She wants to hear the opposite of what she is saying from you. Now if she turned around and blew you off I'd have to say I'm sorry but if it's mixed signals you are getting you might want to back away a bit to see how she reacts.
2007-03-19 09:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by katobow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha Sounds like she likes you to me! Maybe she was having a moment of insecurity when she said that you "would probably never fall for her". She probably DOES feel like you're too good for her, even if you don't feel that way! She definitely is giving you all the signs of a crush, and if you decide to react to it, it would be completely understandable and normal.
Hope that helps!
2007-03-19 09:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sammeh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she likes you and is flirting but playing hard to get. Call her bluff and make a move...see what happens. If you're really that good of friends, it won't hurt anything.
2007-03-19 09:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Get a life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is just being herself and having fun with you
why can't you just enjoy your time with her
does everyone always have to have an ulterior motive? I think not. You either enjoy her company and keep on the way you are going or you don't enjoy her company and you say goodbye.
there doesn't have to be a motive as I said before...maybe she is just being herself
be cool...
2007-03-19 09:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, she's into you . . . sounds to me like shes nervous to make the first move so she's doing suddle hints. Go for it. Don't be shy about it either it makes you look like you're not sure of yourself. Just be like "hey you know how you said you werent worried about me falling for you . . . welp sorry to tell you but you're out of luck, sorry miss .. it's happening." Go for it!
2007-03-19 09:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd just let it go where it will. It sounds like you two have something awesome going on so whether or not you're gonna get involved, keep your friendship.
2007-03-19 09:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like she just wants to be friends
2007-03-19 09:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she ever thought of the 2 of you in that way and see if you get a green light or a red light.
2007-03-19 09:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
confusing?... maybe she's very insecure, and THINKS you will never like her, so says things to protect herself from looking dumb. maybe you are the smartest, best-looking guy she knows... and she doesnt want to take it too fast. maybe she wants you to fight for her, not literally. maybe shes waiting for you to make the first move, because she doesnt want you to think shes easy. maybe shes silently trying to read you, because YOU are confusing... best thing to do, is TALK to her... im sure she would appreciate it.
2007-03-19 09:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋