Lately I've been cheating on my husband with my manager from Captain D's. I wouldnt call it cheating BC I needed the raise for extra money to help our household. Then we added my husbands best friend to the mix to spice it up even more, and now my manager wants both of us all the time. How do I get my manager to pay more attention to me and end the affair with my husbands best friend? I feel really bad since thats his friend and all!
2007-03-19 09:38:54 · 21 answers · asked by nicky w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have BIG problems my friend......
2007-03-19 09:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by bigtone 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How on earth did you get yourself into this situation!You sound very confused .This is an unhealthy situation ,you need to evaluate your life.This is not the right way to live ,there are other ways of getting a raise ,I don't know how to advise you. 1. Are you staying with your husband ? 2. What is the reason behind the relationship between your husband and his best friend ? Why is your boss involved with this situation ? What is the state of your marriage? These are questions you need to ask yourself, this situation has to end, because there is no real value to it, it is non-productive and negative ,change course before it is to late, do you really want to be involved with a man who behaves in this way ? You are selling yourself short and you are worth more than that,you are living in a state of confusion and mistakenly thinking that this is normal, it is not .No happiness will come of this situation.
2007-03-19 17:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a screwed up and totally immoral situation. Are you saying that you are taking money to help your household? Well, that seems to me like one notch above being a call girl. Get your act together and end the affair and start being a good wife to your husband. If not, then file for divorce because your husband deserves some happiness and needs someone who truly loves him and cares about him because obviously you do not. You want messed up and crazy sex, then leave, get a divorce and go on with your sex crazy messed up life and let your husband go.
2007-03-19 17:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, aww poor you, I feel so terrible for your sad little drama that you have caused NOT!!!!!!!!!!!
If you didn't want your husband you shouldn't have married him and to be doggin him with his best friend wow you are one cold chick, I can't even call you a woman.
Either way you look at it your going to lose your husband and I feel sorry for him that he meant such a sneaky, cold hearted chick as yourself.
Anyway I say stay with the manager at work because you need the extra cash right! And try telling your husband how cold you are so that he can find himself a real woman.
Good luck NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 17:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nicky, Nicky, Nicky.....Sex with your boss and your husbands best friend.....at the same time??? Your boss is a real piece of work!!! (and you are just plum crazy) I wish for you the very best my dear, but the time has come to smell the roses, and prepare for the pill you must swallow. You have only one hope, and that is your husband has been cheating with two of your friends as well!!!
Huggs and Kisses,,,,
Lonnie
2007-03-19 16:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth it. Now your marriage is in jeaporty and your job as well.. You need to get good advise and to get your priorities straight and in hopes that when you do tell your husband it will be hard to ever mend the brokeness of His heart. You can always find another job...
2007-03-19 16:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, living in that imaginary dream world again, is this going on at the same time while your teenage daughter who is smoking pot wants you to kiss her?
This would not even rate a passing grade in a high school creative writing class.
2007-03-19 16:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand women like you. Here I am a great a s s woman and single and here you are this thing that is married and sleeping with the mananger and husband's best friend. It's women like you who give great women awful names and most men don't trust the good ones because they have been hurt by women like you. God will have justice for this adulty that you are committing and praise be to God for opening your husband's eye and letting him see just the type of thing that you are!!!!!!!!!! If he is smart, he will divorce your a s s in record time!!!!!!!!! STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID PERSON YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 16:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hun u dont need extra money if u do be a striper not having an affair because ur manager could get mad an tell him or show up at your house think of sumthin quick hope this helps
2007-03-19 16:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by cheer.amanda5 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well first of all what u did was real wrong and u should leave the job find a different one and break it off with the both of them and stop what ur doing u should be the one who tells ur husband and dont let him hear it from someone else
2007-03-19 16:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ofelya I 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
holy crap, does your husband know you work at Captain D's?
with his best friend?, if he's into this web site you'll be getting more attention from him than you need. Oh yea, to answer your question, tell that sex fiend you work for, your friend has herpes. and as for you, you little devil, how much extra is he paying you?
2007-03-19 16:51:13 · answer #11 · answered by fancy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋