what if you like your ex but he treated you really bad and now hes with your worst enemy??but your with someone you've been waitting for along time....HELP ME!!
2007-03-19 09:24:09 · 53 answers · asked by cuties_with_booties_53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your taken, he's taken. he's a jerk, you seem like a good girl. SCREW HIM! (not literally) forget about him. dont let punks like him take up your time, focus on the guy that you have.
2007-03-19 09:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by i luv all yalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that he is only going out with your worst enemy because he knows how to break you down and apparently he is. So I say move on and if you like the guy your with forget about the ex and treat him as if you two never went out! Good Luck!
2007-03-19 09:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sami Lee A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's your problem? Your jerk ex is with your jerk enemy, and you're happy with someone you like. Seems ideal to me.
So you have some lingering attraction to or feelings for your ex - at least you realize that he's no good for you. You just have to keep reminding yourself of how badly he treated you, and how you respect yourself too much to ever make that mistake again.
Cut him out of your mind - every time you catch yourself thinking about him or having feelings for you, stop, remind yourself of the bad things he did, and concentrate on your new sweetie and all the reasons he's so good for you. be strong, you'll be fine.
2007-03-19 09:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex doesn't respect you and treat you right he's not worth it. And if he's dating your enemy than just hope that he treats her as bad as he treated you. And about your new guy, well if you've been waiting for him he's got to be pretty good.
2007-03-19 09:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Wings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over your EX, if he treated you bad he will never treat you good, sounds to me like your still a teenager or not out of highschool so its not worth the drama or trouble to go back to your ex.
Your young keep your options open or be with someone who treats you good. You will get over your ex in time... you might still like him b/c your enemy got him or you just miss the good times. Either way he is your EX for a reason... remember that.
2007-03-19 09:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about ur ex.he treated u badly.he's with ur enemy. what more are u waiting for.be happy and thank God u now have the right person.if u don't love him,and there's no hope to do,then leave him and be fair to him.but never look back.ur ex is already ex.if there were any chance of him to change there would've bn even a slight sign.but the only sign i c is that he's now with ur enemy.good luck
2007-03-19 09:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural 2 still like ur ex, but forget him. also, u did wait 4 whoever ur w/ 4 a really long time and u should enoy that guy as long as he's in ur life. also, the ex probably is pretending to like ur worst enemy just 2 make u either jelous or really p.o.ed. hope it al works out 4 u.
2007-03-19 09:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight...
you like your ex
he is your worst enemy
you are now with someone else
you have waited a long time to be with them
how can you like your ex if he is your worse enemy and in the same breath say you are with the person you have waited for a long time to be with??
you definitely need therapy of the major sort
2007-03-19 09:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy you're with now if you've wanted him for a long time. Your ex is with someone you really dislike and treated you poorly. Why would you want to go back with him, especially if you're with someone you wanted for a while?
2007-03-19 09:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl there is no need to ask that question, he've been treating you bad, now both of ya dating someone, every body's happy, why you're worrying about him for. you still like him because you once loved him (assuming) and those feeling aren't suppose to go away over night, but soon will, girl it's a matter of time, don't stress yourself over him. while your spending all your time thinking about him,trust me he's doing the exact opposite. there's a proverb that goes lke this "never eat a food that you've already vomit"
2007-03-19 09:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the problem. The man who treated you badly is with someone you can't stand... now you don't ever have to deal with either of them...
And you are with someone that you have been waiting for for along time? Then YAY, enjoy it!
Forget about your Ex, and don't bother or worry about who he is with!
"When you sell your car, do you really care who drives it after you?"
2007-03-19 09:29:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋