Are you pregnant and thinking of giving your child up for adoption?

Question

I would highly reccomend that you not do it. Anti-abortion fanatics have just used this rheteric to take your child away for very little $, if any at all to you. The attorneys/agencies make alot of money of this business. Abortion has been around since THE BEGINING OF TIME. If it were REALLY murder and that big of an issue, don't you think that God might have mentioned it specifically in the bible? They were having abortions then. It wasn't considered murder. ABORTIONS ARE LEGAL.

latisha... couldn't quite follow your "babble", but I believe what you're trying to say is... that you are saying abortions are illegal? THEY ARE LEGAL.

THIS IS FOR WOMEN/GIRLS WHO ARE THINKING OF ADOPTION... but thanks for your bible thumping rhetoric. By the way what language did Jesus speak? What do you really know about the bible? Why didn't God mention abortion in the bible, when it was a common practice? Why didn't he clarify it then? Why 2000 years later do you seem to have all the answers?

Hi Lisa G... I'm glad you're here too! I'm glad you have great parents (I really hate to use "adoptive" to describe parents/children) I'm glad you can appreciate what you're birth mother went through to have you. I can promise that she loved you more than she loved herself. I know that she did the best she could. Did you know there's actually a day set aside called Birth Mother's day? It's the week before Mother's day. Unfortunately you won't find many birth mothers celebrating it. They are too afraid to come out and have people know they had to give their child away for adoption. I was in the bookstore recently and it was written for and about women who had given their children up for adoption and what they went through mentally and physically. I forgot the name. Please read it. I sat in the store and cried tears I didn't know I had.

Answer 1

Its not about money...If you decide you dont want to keep your child, adoption is the best option for you and your child and I dont feel that you should be paid for your decision...I was adopted and I am so glad my mother didn't abort me! I have the most wonderful adoptive parents imaginable and thanks to my birth mother I am here!!!!! Good Luck!

Answer 2

wow you sure dont know much do you? when you put your child up for adoption you do not have to come out of pocket the people who adopt your child ususaly pay for everything. and newborn babies will have no problem being adopted because thats what most people are looking for you need to read up on your facts before you start posting stupid **** also the bible says murder is a sin. murder is the taking of a life. a heartbeat is a sigh that there is life. fetus has a heatbeat and by abortion you stop the heartbeat and that my friend equals murder. you really need to read more

Answer 3

i became confronted with this comparable subject while i became sixteen and nevertheless in severe college. when I found out i became pregnant I instructed the father and he would have no longer something to do with me. My mom and father instructed his dad and his dad stated he knew somebody who became drawn to a touch one. My mom and father tried to convince me to have an abortion, yet that became no longer an option. until now I had made my concepts up thoroughly i desperate to fulfill this couple. on the beginning up i became very uncomfortable and shy. We met a pair circumstances to speak, then the further alongside in the being pregnant I have been given, they extra in touch they have been given. the female, Tammy, and that i grew very close. She and that i'd spend time mutually popular and bypass procuring and characteristic lunch, etc. while the day got here that my water broke she became the 1st one there to take me to the scientific institution. i ended up having to have an emergency C-section and that i instructed them i needed to be placed to sleep for it. when I awakened that they had the child and all I had to do became sign the papers. that's truthfully a project which you won't be in a position to be egocentric approximately in any respect. you're youthful and you could verify what's maximum suitable for the child and in case you or somebody else could grant a extra appropriate existence for the child. I knew being purely sixteen years old i could no longer help a infant on my own. After some weeks of being completely uncertain of my decision I went to bypass to the child, Addison, and grew to become extra beneficial of my decision. as we talk Addy is 5 years old and she or he's captivating and could no longer be in extra appropriate palms. Tammy and that i are closer than ever, she is extra like a mom to me than all and sundry could ever be. It became an open adoption so i'm getting to work out Addy each time i prefer to. I now have 2 different daughters of my own. Tammy is making plans on telling Addy who her genuine mom is a form of days while she will understand. Addy does understand already that she is accompanied and she or he's comfortable with that for the time of the meanwhile. The couple are very religious and that they use the occasion of God adopting all human beings as his very own babies. no count what your decision would be it heavily isn't a incorrect one. good good fortune and in case you ever could chat approximately this lower back you recognize the place to discover me. God bless!! ; )

Answer 4

that is wroung to take a young childs life its not right or anything how would you feel if you died befor life and went to heven you would prolly wonder why now wouldnt you well ok yur choce!~

Answer 5

Everybody should just have sex when they are married and these problems should't be a big deal.

Answer 6

God DID address this issue. He said "Thou shalt not kill".

Answer 7

No, I am not.