So, the guy I like likes me back. I can tell in any way. So, lately I've seen him near my locker section (which he hasn't done before) and his locker is on the other side of our grade's wing. I realized that that was the perfect place to confront him about my liking him because it's so loud no one can hear us, and so crowded that no one will see me talking to him. But, it's a great idea in theory...but it's really hard to accomplish in real life. I want to give him my cell number, but would i be pushing it too far? Basically, I just want advice on how to approach him and speak to him. And if I should give him my number...
2007-03-19 08:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by Isabella R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's only human just approach and tell him how you feel and see if the felling is mutual
2007-03-19 08:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hanging by your side of the lockers, that's a good sign. Just make sure (so you don't come off like an idiot) that he doesn't have good friends near you, or something like that. Basically, if there's a soda machine or a great waterfountain near your locker, don't get too excited. BUT, if there's no other reason that makes sense for him to be at your lockers, then yes, he's probably there for you. Now that THAT'S aside, let's move on to how to get him to answer or notice you. Having much experience with this topic, I would say... go up to him and say, "Haven't seen you in this neck of the woods before," really nonchalantly, so that it doesn't come off that you're hitting on him. If he says, "Yeah," and walks away, either you've caught him at a bad time, or he's really not over there for you. Either way, try again just to make sure! Wait one or two days, and try again. If this time he gives you more than "Yeah," then you're getting lucky. Even if it's just one word, one word can mean alot of difference. So, I KNOW you want his cell number so you can text and be close, I mean, who doesn't want to feel close to the ones they like? But, unless you want to seem like a stalker, than I would hold off on that until you get to know him better. Make a point of coming up to him everyday or everyother day in the hallway. And if things are going well, you could even try going OUT of your way to go see HIM. He was (possibly) doing that for you, right? If he honestly is interested in you after getting to know you, then you won't have to worry about getting a cell number... he'll get yours. ;)
2007-03-19 16:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Katalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The direct and honest route is always the best. It leads to less heartbreak and to better appreciation of the experience. Give him the number.
2007-03-19 15:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk up, be flirtacious, say "what are doing over here?" make small-talk and then say well heres my number.. call me sometime then leave. Guys love that kind of stuff.
Straight-foward, but not desperate.
2007-03-19 15:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hand him a note. That's how I told my boyfriend I liked him in a somewhat similar situation (passing in the hallway).
2007-03-19 15:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steps
1.Get his number from someone you know
2. text him he should text who is this
3. If hes normal he'll ask do you like me if he doesnt you should ask him.
4. say maybe maybe not then ask do you like me
5. if hes says yes or a little bit say i like you too or I like you a little bit too.
2007-03-19 16:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by britt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say walk over to him and say hey whats happening
then grab his hand and put the paper w/ ur # in it then just walk away
if he likes u he will call
2007-03-19 15:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do that. He will dislike you for being so easy.
i prefer to go with a girl whom i fight for.
Good luck
2007-03-21 15:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him how you feel
2007-03-19 15:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him ur #
2007-03-19 15:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋