I went out with this guy a few months ago, he was really nice, but the first day i met him we did things im not proud of e.g. oral. Its been like 2 months since he dumped me and I want to go out with him again, do I actually still love him or is it only because i feel i have to be with him for what we did?
2007-03-19 08:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by lil_chaz_2k7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you are still harboring feelings for this guy. The only answer as to if you are in love wih him is in your heart. Do not feel obligated to be with him just because of what you did with him physically!
2007-03-19 08:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think think it's love.
You feel guilty and claim it's love to justify what you did.
He took advantage of you, and dumped you after he got what he wanted. Guys like these are everywhere you have to be careful of whom you choose. If you still want to be with him, try again.. but slow it down this time and make it clear you're not going to move too fast this time. If he dumps you again, you'll get the clarification you need that he's an a s s-hole.
Good luck Sweetie
2007-03-19 15:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think we can answer that for you because we don't know how you feel inside. Why did he dump you? I don't think you "love" the guy because you said you guys did things you weren't proud of...you might be slightly infactuated with him...and you really have to think why you want to be with him. After all he dumped you so you have to find the reason why he doesn't want to be with you. I don't think in any way you should feel you have to be with him because of what you guys did....whatever happened happened, and you can't change it. Unless you think you guys have a good chance of getting back together...I wouldn't think too much about it..just relax and have fun, and hopefully you can find another bf soon!
2007-03-19 15:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely confusing intimate acts for true intimacy between two loving adults. That's the problem, little one, with becoming sexually active too soon. Young girls are too apt to equate sex with love, because for a woman, the two are often synonomous. For a man, one has nothing to do with the other. The first day you met this person you made yourself available to not only him, but to every other partner and every other disease he may have contracted. Gather you wits and your dignity. Never look in his direction again. Look at rainbows and a future full of true love.....if you're wise enough to wait for it.
2007-03-19 16:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you. if you try to get back with him... not only is he going to think that you are easy coz he got into ur pants/ you got into his the first day you met.. he's gonna think your desperate too and that you NEED him. don't give him the satisfaction hunni.
I looked at ur other questions... are you 13? i think to be honest you might just be a very horny teen at the mo.. and want the oral etc back again... not him.
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2007-03-19 15:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you. You even said it yourself. Rinse your mouth out and get over him. Cause he will just dump you again. Then if you did go out with him again, he is just going to expect you to give him oral and much much more.
Suck up your pride, dust yourself off and learn from your mistake.
2007-03-19 15:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by 2shay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah your just feeling gilty of what happen..because i really dont want to say its because you gave yourself to quick and maybe thats what all he wanted..dont go back to him its not right because he might just do the same thing again..i have been there and its not very pleasing ..he broke my heart when i gave him another chance...because he was saying baby this baby that but once i gave it to him again he left me so you dont need to feel like you been use because you havent you had wanted to do it to..so i give you your props â¥
2007-03-19 15:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by *.::♥Alissa♥::.* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he dumped you so move on. Don't lower yourself as he will expect just what you gave him before. Do things differently next time with someone else.
2007-03-19 15:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow..first day u met him?? not good. n u still LOVE him? i may not know wat love is but u definitely don't.. if it's alright that i ask..wat caused u to give oral on the first day? wat was so special about him? i mean i thought it was wrong for ppl to kiss someone they just met. but nowadays its not the same i guess. u know something i hope i get oral form a girl the first day i meet her..n im here tellin u its wrong. =x
2007-03-19 15:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by njzgreatestballa55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it you loved about him in the first place? Why aren't there any other guys you're interested in right now? (And yes, slow it down in your next relationship!)
2007-03-19 15:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋