i have never had a bf and i am 13 what can i do HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 08:12:50 · 23 answers · asked by chloe h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh please, you're 13. Wait til you get some years on you before you post that. You have plenty of time to get a boyfriend. Stop being in such a rush to talk to boys. The longer you wait the less headaches you'll have
2007-03-19 08:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine. Breathe. I know it seems like everyone around you has a boyfriend and they are all judging you and looking down on you because you've never had a boyfriend, but that's not really the case. I'm 18 now and didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 15. Just relax and try not to worry about it. I know it's hard, but in middle school and high school relationships aren't even worth the effort or worth worrying over anyway, at least not most of the time. Just relax and have fun with your friends, you will have a boyfriend eventually, but you're better off not obsessing over it.
2007-03-19 15:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God girl WAIT, you are only 13. It'll happen don't rush it. Besides you don't need a bf right now, you should be consintrating on school to be somebody, then when you become somebody love will find you. Take care of yourself and be dependent on a guy. Accomplish tourself, become something important like a dr. or scienciest, get your own house, car, etc, then love will come your way. make sure he is there for you though and night your money, you don't need that. But you have a lifetime until then BE STRONG GIRL POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 15:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is wait!!! You are only 13 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Boys are nothing but trouble and right now you don't need that. So just wait and finally that perfect guy will come along!
2007-03-19 15:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time. You are just 13, trust me the boys and the men will come. Give yourself time to figure out who you are and what you like and what you want from a boyfriend before you go looking. When you go looking you always tend to find something and it's not always what you wanted. Give it more time and work on you and the boys will come. Trust me, even when you think you don't want to be bothered, there will be some bug-a-boo on your last nerve.
2007-03-19 15:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh GOOD GRIEF! You are 13! You have the next 80 years to be with someone. Who cares if you've never had a boyfriend. Take your time.
2007-03-19 15:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For crying out loud, you're 13. You have your whole life ahead of you to find the right boy. Teenagers who get married too early are the problem with society, among other things.
2007-03-19 19:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ed A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls enjoy yourself now i beg you!! Do you want to be used and dumped by all sorts of guys by the time you are 25?
I wish i could be your age again i would really take my time, keep myself special and get myself ready for my special BF!!
Those your age doing it are loose girls. Don't envy them at all. It doesn't pay to mess one's self and body up before one's husband comes! Trust me you don't need a BF now!!
2007-03-19 15:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lechs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, I'm 14 and I never had one either. You probably think that that's lame but just focus on your schoolwork and you'll find the right guy. Guys hate desperate girls. No, I am not a nerd...I don't think.....besides a few guys have asked me out but I turned them down since they were so not my type. Now, I'm just waiting to be asked by my crush.
2007-03-19 15:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now you don't need a bf you need to focus on school. having a bf does not make you any better than someone else.just wait on that. boys are not going any where they will be there when the time is right.
2007-03-19 15:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋