Like there is something wrong with you? I keep getting guys that either I have no interest in (for good reason) trying to push me into relationships or guys that are avoidant of relationships. I am an nice sweet girl and not bad looking. I like sports and have interests of my own. I don't feel like I have to have someone else to define who I am. So why do I feel like there is something wrong with me?
2007-03-19 08:10:55 · 26 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to feel like that at times.
There is NOTHING wrong with you. Trust me. If there was, you really would've noticed it by NOW, don't you think?
These guys just aren't the right guys for you, that's all.
God has a plan for you and will you the right one in His time.
Just have faith in Him. ♥
2007-03-19 08:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you feel like that probably because other people around you (like your friends) arent doing the same thing as you.
You are actually doing the right thing, in knowing that someone else doesnt define you, thats hard for a lot of people to realize!!
And also having interests of your own and making yourself happy!!
So nothing at all is wrong with you, if anything you have the right idea!!!
Just keep thinkning like that, and a guy will come along one day that you will like and that you will think is "perfect"
Untill then, if I were you, I wouldnt settle, just keep being who you are and having fun!!
<3
2007-03-19 15:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, you just haven't met the right person that's all. Be patient, sometimes it takes a while before it clicks with 2 persons. Don't be in a hurry, live your single life right now and enjoy it. Because as cute and romantic as it sounds ,when you're a couple and in a serious relationship, a lot of things change. So go out, meet people, have fun and be happy. When the time is right , the right guy will come along. Just don't worry about it...
Good luck.
2007-03-19 15:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by johanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, you're just not meeting the right guys for you right now. You may want to consider changing up your approach, because your current approach is attracting the wrong response.
I've noticed that guys tend to want relationships with girls that don't talk about relationships. It's a silly game but you have to act like you don't care sometimes, like you're cool if it goes either way. Then normally some guy will come around and want to make you his own.
2007-03-19 15:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about your appearance you sound as though you are an amazing person why worry about what people think. You know that you are a great person as well so why bother about what people say or do. You have to be confident in yourself and inspire yourself to be a better person if you feel that you need to.
Don't let other people make you feel as though you are less than someone. The right guy has not come along yet so hold on and you would find him. He probably is closer than you think and waiting for you to see him. Make your own path on who you think you would better off with whom you want to be with. Don't go modifying yourself or trying to live for someone else live for you and remember to keep that chin up and be confident in who you are no one could do this for you but yourself.
Good luck In life wish you all the best to come.
2007-03-19 15:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very selective and just know exactly what you want. Many men are attracted to you because of your looks, but you are not ready to invest the time to really get to know them unless the inititial attraction is there. Also, you may have many men that are like you and know exactly what they are looking for looks wise and it is not you. One day the stars will align, so to speak, and you will meet that special someone that you are immediately attracted to and he will feel the same about you. Then hopefully you both will take the time to really discover if there is the matching interest and values to build a forever relationship on. Best wishes on finding him and NEVER GIVE UP. Go Over, Go Under, Go Around, Or Go Through but NEVER GIVE UP. PRAY!!!!!!!!!!! jerrythelocke@yahoo.com
2007-03-19 15:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people feel that way from time to time. There is nothing wrong with you. Stop looking for love it will find you. Just continue to pursue your interests and hobbies and sooner or later you will meet a guy who is right for you. You really do kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince. Good luck but I am sure you will do fine. Pretty girls who like sports seem to do ok in that department.
2007-03-19 19:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you have your own life. I'm guessing you are in some sort of school and most girls there actually do have to have someone else to define who they are.
It's they that have something wrong with them, but it's the norm so that's why you feel out of place in this regard. I was the same way at the time.
2007-03-19 15:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just gets frustrating because you know who you are and are confident in yourself but for some reason theres this big "I LIKE LOSERS" sign on your forehead that you cant get rid of. You know yourself and know what you deserve which is a good man and your just getting frustrated cause those that are pursuing you at the moment just arent the ones you would be interested in. Dont worry I was recently in the same situation. Just dont settle, be content with yourself, and the right guy will come along.
2007-03-19 15:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the part of you that wants to be in a relationship, and since you aren't, that's something that is "wrong" with you. I know girls especially think about this nonsense.
People don't stay togher because they're not right for each other, not because something's wrong. Just try to not let it cause you to become insecure.
You sound like you'll be alright. Patience.
2007-03-19 15:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Peter N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your a women who knows what she wants this may sound corny but I believe that there's that one person that we were meant to be with... I think that you already know that......your not just hooking up with the first guy to look your way .....I don't belive that there's nothing wrong with you it's the guys there not "THE ONE " and you know it because the ones that are into you your not into and the ones that you may have some attraction to aren't interested in you may be it's because there not ready to settle down yet and who knows you scare them ...you know they may think shes a real nice girl SOMEDAY I'd like to marry someone like that...just not now....hope this helps...good luck
2007-03-19 15:29:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋