There is a guy I am interested in getting to know. He knows I am interested. We can message each other on the computer and he seems pretty outgoing, but in person he never says anything. Just looks. He will make eye contact with me in a room full of people. The one time he has ever spoken to me, he asked the same question twice after I already answered it and the answer was posted right in front of us. I used to just think he was shy but he has alot of friends that are girls so I just look at it as he is not interested. If he is friends with all of these girls it seems to me he is not shy. I thought he might be at least interested in getting to know me but I guess I misread things.
2007-03-19 07:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the guy is nervous. Just initiate the conversation when you see him next.
2007-03-19 07:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it seems that you are communicating with two different people, the shy in person guy and the outgoing on the computer guy. Did you ever think that this guy has some one else helping him communicate with you on the computer? Stranger things have happened, why not ask him.
2007-03-19 14:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just nervous when you are face to face. That means he probably likes you...I don't think you're misreading things. Talk a little more through email..that should help. The other girls are just friends so it makes sense he's not too shy around them.
2007-03-19 14:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit could be hes not interested but he could be shy in front of u because he does like u, he probably doesnt want to say somethin stupid and feel dumb maybe u should be more outgoing and get more personal with him, if not in person the try the chat room
2007-03-19 14:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by D.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont let all that fool you.He might really like you.Sometimes even guys who have alot of women friends.Sometimes when we meet the one we really want to be with.We freeze.Dont know what to say or do.
If you like him let him know.Trust me you cant go wrong.Even if he is not interested at least then you will know.RIGHT
2007-03-19 14:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋