Okies, so exactly how do I let go of this guy who's been playing games with me? I can't believe he's talking to other girls!. And playing mind games with me. The trust is destroyed.
When you say "drop him cold" or "let him go" does this mean to ignore him forever? Or end it with a final goodbye? I do feel like he's making me hang on...Please help, I am really hurt by him...and can't believe he would be so childish as to making me jealous lately. But also, keeping me on the back burner!
What if he still wants to be friends? Do I say no? He's pulled the "i dont want you out of my life forever" line....he may do it again. So what do i do?
2007-03-19 07:40:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just listed several reasons to break up with your boyfriend. He is: talking to other girls, you do not trust him, he hurts you by being insensitive, and you obviously are not his top priority. Tell him exactly why you do not want to be bf/gf, any longer, using this laundry list of reasons. Be FIRM, and if he wants to be friends, you MUST decline. The same reasons for being a poor excuse of a boyfriend are as justifiable as to NOT be his friend. Make your reasons known, end of story, move on.
2007-03-27 07:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I bet you are at the beginning of your dating life. It's simple girl. Just tell him what you said in your question followed by: "...and that's why I don want to see you again. I deserve better.". Now, the real question is: will you believe the words coming out of your mouth?
If you want a relatioship to end and stay that way it's allways best to not see each other gain. I would say for at least 12 months,
Good luck
2007-03-19 14:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by the secret is in the pudding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would deffinately break up any relationship with him.. but remember if you keep him as a friend he can still hurt you.. I would not be rude like oh i hate you go away.. but I would not have him on my top ten friend list either.. just gradually stop talking to him.. he will get over it.. (guys like that don't stop playing stupid games just because someone got hurt.. save yourself any more trouble and just put him on the back burner!!)
2007-03-27 14:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you end it with a final goodbye, you give him a chance to plead. But you ALSO give him a chance to be mean to you by either acting aloof or being vicious.
A final goodbye would be the mature route, but that's assuming he can handle it.
You should first decide what you want. Do you want to be friends with him? Do you want to get rid of him and never see him again?
If it's the first, talk to him and explain how you feel.
If it's the second then just dump him. Don't talk to him, don't return his calls, don't contact him ever again. People think this one is easy - its REALLY hard!
2007-03-26 21:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him, that you are sick of him playing behind your back cuase its giving you a heartache everytime he does that,, you can't live your life with a heartache every single day, you're too young still to suffer that way! If he still wants you by his side, its best to maintane seperation for a couple months, if he comes back to you, that'll prove he can't go through a day without at least hearing your voice.
2007-03-27 10:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u and really felt hurt by a guy i would go up to him and say "its over dont talk to me again i need to think and u r just keeping me tied down with ur lies" and then not talk to him till u feel u r ready to be friends again
2007-03-27 13:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by mary b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should march right up to him and say "Stop Being a player" then walk away in anger
2007-03-26 22:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by kaira biasu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say a final Good bye,,,You deserve much better.
2007-03-19 14:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the "we can still be friends routine" they do it pretty well, so what comes around goes around :)
2007-03-27 13:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! no one deserves to be treated that way! if he wants to be friends, say fine but dont expect to ever be more
2007-03-27 12:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Allie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋