So My best friend in the world/roommate recently started dating a family member of mine. He's the only member of my family that I get along with and i'm totally thrilled about it. But this week he had to go out of town.
Last night our mutual friend came over to hang out as he often does. He was acting unusually for most of the night and I realized he's developed a crush on my roommate(who he's only known about a week). I didn't think it was a big deal and just laughed it off. I let my friend know to make sure she didn't encourage him unduely because she's a bit of a flirt. So last night I went to bed before our friend left because I had to work in the morning.
This morning I woke up to find them snuggled up in my friends bed together. I'm sure they didn't sleep together but I'm still very upset at her for betraying my family members trust.
I have no idea what the hell I"m supposed to do in this situation. . . . HELP
2007-03-19 07:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by blood_drop2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just an FYI the family member in question is not old or creepy. Its my uncle whose only five years older than my friend.
2007-03-19 07:32:34 · update #1
You need to let your relative know that that happened because family comes before friends. The last thing you want is a family member to be hurt when you know you could have stopped it. You MUST let him know!
2007-03-19 07:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tony B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, just let it work its self out.BE supportive. BECAUSE as long as they are not married --she is still looking.SHE has a right to look and so do you.SHE should be honest, But some people dont like hurting people. AND she may not be sure who she really likes here. SO CUT her some slack she is not married yet.
2007-03-19 14:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was totally wrong of her. Well you know who you can trust now. You should let her know but be mature about it since you two live together and let your family member know ASAP about what happened.
2007-03-19 14:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will hurt your family member no matter what she says. you choose between your roommate or your family member to tell. friends come and go but family is forever family. good luck and happy life.
2007-03-19 14:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by helloguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family member?! if it is you dad ... hmmm kick the *** of your 'best' friend
2007-03-19 14:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yell at them both
2007-03-19 14:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is tell your brother and tell her how you feel about it and tell her if ahe don't tell your bro what happend then tell her you will.
2007-03-19 14:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by suny y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her.
2007-03-19 14:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋