She always has been a very mischievous girl but I had been able to handle her until suddenly she had a great grow spurt. I am 160 cm and my 12 year old daughter is 175 cm and about 20 kg heavier than me and I feel very insecure when I tell off her, she realized of it and doesn't obey me. I don't know what can I do.
Sorry for my bad English
2007-03-19 07:17:52 · 8 answers · asked by Dana C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
give her ZERO FREEDOM. no phone, don't go to the mailbox alone. walk with her at school. ZERO FREEDOM.
take away all clothing that no longer fits her.
take the doors off the bathroom and her bedroom. ZERO FREEDOM
take care.
2007-03-19 07:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by ohmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Tell her that you are a little intimidated by her now that she is physically grown-up, and that you are afraid she will no longer respect you as her father. Tell her that you love her and want to protect her and that you don't know the best way to do that now that she's no longer a little girl.
Ask her how she would suggest that you show your love and protection in the future. You might be surprised by her response, so be ready for anything and don't negate what she says. Be firm about the fact that you still want to be involved in protecting her from harm and probably always will.
2007-03-19 14:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by phish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Far to many have sailed out on the sea of matrimony without a PADDLE.
The modern home is the home where everything works with a SWITCH except the children.
Proverbs 22:15 ¶ Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
2007-03-19 14:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Preacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 5 ft 9 in and my 2 kids are 6 ft. one of each. i ave told them that just because they are bigger i am still the momma and i will knock them down to size real quick. they have never tested me to see if i would or not. you just need to be firm and dont back down or she will continue to walk all over you. just remember you are the mother and she is the daughter. you can still dissapline her and that is that. you need to have a support system too. family is good at that or friends that can keep you informed and help you make sure she follows the rules. if she thinks she is being watched all the time she is less likely to do wrong. by the way good luck it is a trying time
2007-03-19 14:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by wlfbelcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being the mother of 4 boys i understand but in my situation it all came down to respect i know they could simply pick me up and move me if they wanted to but i am still the boss in my home i say remove all the privileges everything and let her know you will not back down you have to be the one in charge and you should never fear your kids
2007-03-19 14:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her knows who's the mother, size dont matter. You gave birth to her, not the other way around.
2007-03-19 14:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I good old fashioned clip round the ear hole.
2007-03-19 14:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should just get a belt and tear her up.Give her the beating of her life
2007-03-19 14:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by trevontay w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋