I was dating a guy who is a bit younger than me(he's 19). For the past 2-3 weeks, he's barely called me or initiated plans. He didn't respond to the Myspace message I sent him, even though I KNOW he read it. This has left me hanging, and hindering me from at least making plans with other people(since I don't believe in cheating). But when I try to contact him to resolve this or dump him, he's unreachable and barely responds(despite my messages). I wonder if he's cheating or "dumping" me via ignorance/neglect. So, I did something shady. LOL I changed my Myspace profile status to "single," and wrote in the "Interests" categories about a few of my exes' "well-endowments" and how much I miss my now ex's brother(who was also an ex of mine)! Then I used my alternate Myspace profile to send him a message, advising him to check out my profile updates. Hahaha I guess it is true, that "revenge" is a dish best served cold?
2007-03-19
07:04:29
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What I mean by "hindering me from making plans," is that I've turned down other guys simply because I was dating this one. On a few occasions, I purposely didn't make plans with any of these admirers because I didn't want to "cheat." Meanwhile, I wasn't going out with this guy either, because he wouldn't respond to my calls or initiate plans. He claims that his prepaid cell phone is broken and/or out of mins, yet he has a land line at his house, Internet, etc. It seems weird that he can get in touch with his (co-ed) buddies but not with me. In the past when he had cell phone problems, he always used AIM to text my cell phone, but now he doesn't even respond to my text messages. So I don't want to be left alone on a weekend, because I reserved the weekend to spend with him and then he doesn't respond, which by that point my friends have already made other plans. I'd rather have the freedom to make plans w/ friends w/o considering him, or get laid from other guys. (long time no sex)
2007-03-19
07:09:01 ·
update #1