Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could make sex for the first time less painful? My boyfriend is pretty big and I know it's really going to hurt the first few times.
2007-03-19 07:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by Callie Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you want it to hurt less? for you not to think about the pain, you really have to be "into it" :) simple.
2007-03-19 07:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are ready first. Losing your virginity does not hurt that much. Tell him to start slow. If you are using a condom, it will make it easier on you. Always use a condom. If you are ,make sure to use gel to ease the progress of having sex. Some even buy dildo's, and use them to help stretch the hymin. you can use smaller to bigger. Until you work your way up to your boyfriends size. That would do the trick. It is not as painful as you might think. A lot of people just say that it hurts. My didn't hurt at all. Just be careful, always practice safe sex. Take it from me, I already have three kids.
2007-03-19 14:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by lilyanna_amora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a well endowed young male and if your boyfriend knows what he is doing and how to make love he will not hurt you. I always give lots of foreplay, including oral, and make sure the girl and I are very well lubricated and take is real slow and easy the first few times.He needs to make sure he doesn't hurt but makes you you feel good. He should just make sure you enjoy it and completely satisfy you. This way you will want him to keep coming back and then he and you can really start enjoying it to the fullest extend. He should make it a beautiful great ecperience for you. If you like you can email me.
2007-03-19 14:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use tampons, that will help break your hymen or "cherry" Also, I don't know how old you are but if you can buy a vibrator and use that a few times it will get you used to being penetrated. Other than that, lubrication is your best friend. Don't be afraid to use something like KY it will definitely help. Stay relaxed, have fun and enjoy.
2007-03-19 14:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...it is going to hurt, so just let it be pretty much. after a couple times, it will get better though. have fun!
2007-03-19 14:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Knockout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication. Be sure and have him bury it balls deep the first time so as to ensure that it doesn't cause discomfort thereafter.
2007-03-19 15:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by endlessknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEs it does HUrt the First couple time!!!!!!!!!
But u have to pay the Price if u wanna do dat!!!!!
2007-03-19 14:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Raven J 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
foreplay...lots of it, and take it slow. try some fingering first to loosen up.
2007-03-19 14:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋