i haven't dated ever since i broke up with my first love because i need new time to enjoy myself as being me. but i still think of him. if i get him back . how do i. what should i do. every body always says hes no good for me. but i know he is. what if he has a girl friend please help.
2007-03-19 06:56:48 · 2 answers · asked by Jenycia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you know when it comes to love, we are often blinded by it. We as women when in love with a difficult man, or less then desirable, we tend to ignore the faults and flaws. Your friends are not blinded, they do not love him like you do, so their judgement isnt clouded like yours. If this was was so great on both your parts why wasnt he after you right now to gain you back? I am sure he has moved on but you need to find that out for yourself, so call him and ask him directly. I am afraid you are going to have to be hurt again to finally move on. Another thing to consider the more distance we put between us and the past, the more we as women tend to color the relationship into a deeper more loving relationship then it actually was. You need to move on your way and this is one way to do it, hear it from his mouth.
2007-03-19 07:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is telling you he is no good for you, maybe you should listen. As women, we tend to lose 50 IQ points the moment we feel something for a man; we become blind to his flaws and make excuses for his behaviour. I sure wish I would have listened when all of my friends drove to Lake Tahoe to talk me out of marrying my ex-husband. But, I thought they just "didn't know him" the way I did. Yeah right. They knew him way better than me since they had a realistic perspective, not one driven by emotion. :)
2007-03-19 07:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋