My boyfriend gets upset b/c he's still in school, while I'm working. How can I tell him that $ doesnt matter?

Question

We met after I had graduated. He is frutrated because he doesnt have that much time for me (homework) and can't take me out as much as he wants (student budget). I really like going out, but I love him, and am willing to stay home or pay for his drinks/meals when we go out. He still gets frustrated with this. I know he wont be in school much longer, what can I do for the next couple of months to show him that I dont care that he's a "broke busy student" (his words, not mine).

Answer 1

I don't think there's anything you can say. Just be there for him and continue doing what you're doing. My hubby is working and going to school at the same time and he gets the blues sometimes. I help him with his assignments, give him back rubs, and be there for him. He likes that, that's really all we can do. Oh...when he graduates, throw him a big bash!

Answer 2

tell him to enjoy it while he can and that you expect him to make it up to you when he graduates. tell him you appreciate that he is aware of what you are capable of doing for the two of you right now and that it is not a reflection of his "manhood". you do what you can, when you can. I would let him know that he needs to stop complaining about it because it is bringing you down....

Answer 3

awh... its the opposite for me and i no i do feel somewat bad... you just gotta keep telling him its fine and you dont mind at all and you would do anything to keep him even if you had to pay ten dollars a day... ♥ Madison

Answer 4

U Should jst tell him that u love him whether or not he has money. n that money does not make the relationship the love does!!!!!!

Answer 5

just tell him that one day you will be out of school and be making money, money of your own

Answer 6

just keep telling him its fine and put in some humor