Ladies, prove me wrong
2007-03-19 06:48:21 · 23 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've just used the same argument that most women use against men.
It's all a matter of perception. But I would say to stop going for the beautiful lookers, and pay attention to the merely pretty ordinary girls.
And if you treat one of us decently, there is no way that we would ever let you go.
2007-03-19 06:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are selfish and cheat. Just the kind of women you don't want to be with. Those types of women are insecure and selfish and feel they have something to prove, either to themself or the world or maybe even you. I've never cheated on a guy in my entire life and I've been with my husband for two years now and I haven't even considered cheating on him. A good woman isn't going to hurt you. Unfortunately, it's as hard to find a good woman as it is to find a good man. They're out there, though. You just have to look carefully.
2007-03-19 13:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I can honestly say I have never cheated and I have been in a 6 year relationship and now I have been seeing a guy for about 7 months and I never think about cheating. I promise there are good girls out there. I guess learn more about the girl before you get serious. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-19 13:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Casey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to prove that to yourself by getting to know more women...amazing though that you've dated over half of the 3+ billion women on the planet so know what "most" of us are like. You've been quite busy! *rolls eyes*
A lot of people have been cheated on...men and women (myself included) but I don't think that makes "most men selfish" I think it makes the guy who cheated on me a jerk...it has no reflection on any other guy.
Perhaps you should look at dating a better caliber of women...or evaluate the ones that cheated on you and if there is a pattern, avoid that "type" in the future.
The behavior of the women you've known (good or bad) isn't an indication that "most" other women are like those few. People are individuals...treat them as such.
2007-03-19 13:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
haha u and me homie but it takes time to find someone special if thats wat ur lookin for. I was cheated on by my "first love" lol and it made me bitter and i didnt trust any female and when i went out with them and they seem to prove my point and views on women but recently i found someone i luv and see a future with and know(well to a certain pint because im still cautious about bein made a fool)that she wont do me wrong. i feel warmth and in the past u would never here me say this, just give it some time because u will find some bad ones but in the end u ll find the one u love
2007-03-19 13:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by D.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not like that. I believe that commitment whether you are married or not should be honored(and finally found my man who feels the same way).
I have felt the same way about men in the past that you feel about women, so I guess we are all capable of hurting. I know there are women out there though who would love one man for the rest of their lives, so I wish you the best. You will find her! :0)
2007-03-19 13:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that attitude, you will be alone for a very long time to come as well. You need to realize that not all women are alike. I guess if you are having so many problems, the blame could be yours. How do we know you aren't the selfish one with a wandering eye? Thank you.
2007-03-19 13:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the negative traits you've described are not unique to women, they are human traits.
I have been cheated on, never the cheater.
My boyfriend has been cheated on, never the cheater.
The difference, is I do my best not to let my past experience, which has nothing to do with him affect 'us'. I love him and trust him.
He, on the other hand, lets his past experiences, bring doubt and undeserved distrust into our relationship. We work on this together.
It's up to you how you deal with it, but if you let past experiences ruin future happiness for you, you will miss out on the very real possibility of a relationship with a women,who can love without hurting.
Best of luck to you.
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2007-03-19 13:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you find yourself in this situation, you aren't with the right woman. we are selfish, but you should be too. who wants to waste time in a relationship that isnt worth it. nobody. so keep yourself dating. date a bunch of women at once and you'll find what you are looking for. I feel bad that you have been cheated on, nobody should go through that, but at least you know now what values to look for in a potential mate. put yourself out there and don't be afraid of women, you'll find one sooner or later. try plentyoffish.com and talk with potential dates before meeting them. it will reduce all the hassles you are having with women. don't let a few losers ruin your opinion of us, some of us are awesome!
2007-03-19 13:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by kiss_me_cold_007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i will hopefully prove you wrong i don't like people who cheat on the people they are dating i believe that if you find someone you like better than the person you are dating at the moment the you break up with the person you like better as long as you dont break up with them and then go out with the other person right after that
2007-03-19 14:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋