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Question

...my boyfriend cheated on me with my next door neighboro..and i forgave him.
i forgave him because i know what goes around,eventually comes around. My friends told me to leave him alone and i said i would but then 2 days later..after the long talks and tears...we were back together.Did i make the right choice? I mean i love him too much to jus drop our relationship over a mistake...we've been thru so much..and even thou "nobody wants to see us together" and my parents hate him...i still love him and im still with him...what shud i do

Answer 1

probably not the right choice

Answer 2

U say u love him. Great, but if he really loved you he would not have cheated on you with his neighbor. Im sure when he was banging his neighbor he wasn't thinking of you. You are so stupid for taking him back. By taking him back you are giving him the ok to cheat on you again. Once a cheater always a cheater. This guy will never change, not even for you girl. I just don't understand how u could still love this guy after what he has done to you. How can you trust him again? How do you know he still doesn't bang his neighbor when you go to sleep? Think about that.....

Answer 3

If hes creeping with the neighbor then you've got to be careful. I would have waited it out longer than two days and cried to him for doing something so terrible to you. Make sure he understands that he's really hurt you and that you wont tolerate that happening ever again. Maybe you ought to break it off again for atleast a week to give him time to think and time to kiss up to you. Its hard to tell a fake apology from a sincere one especially when youre in love but, yeah my best advice would be to break it off, tell him you don't know if you can trust him but that you love him. Tell him how hurt and scared you are and that you cant tell him what to say but hes the only one that can make you feel better about the whole getting back together idea. If he makes you feel better ... I'd say you've got him back where you want him. Just be careful with whatever you choose to do. Love makes a fool out of everybody at some point in our lives.

Answer 4

Well if everyone hates him and doesn't want to see you two together, then they must be seeing something that you don't see. Sometimes, what an outside party sees means a lot, as you are probably blinded by the way he really might be.

Being that you aren't married, and it doesn't seem as though he is serious about your relationship because he cheated on the girl next door...literally....I'd say to end this relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If a guy cheats on you once, he will do it again. Trust me.

Answer 5

not the right choice either,my ex gf cheated on me and i said and thought i coulda forgave her but i didnt in the end,we ended up breaking up again,i did love her,but yea,i dont think that was a wise choice but you know its ur decision,this is our oppionions,if u really love him and stuff try if u like,dont get hurt again though,hope this helps

Answer 6

I have had the same experienece and i think dat you should jst let him go once a cheater always a cheater. And I had 2 learn that the hard way!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

It's up to you. Personally after he cheated on me I would of kicked him to the curb because that's just disrespectful and selfish on his part. And just to think he may do it again...isn't worth it. So this is totally up to you.

Answer 8

Give him this chance but if he does it again, tell him to get lost.

Answer 9

get over it