my new BF is 17 and i have 15..
is that tooo old for me?
he hass had sex alot..
andd i juss dunt want to be another girl to him,
he says that i am not...but idkk
Should i stayy wiff him, because he makes me feel liek a PRINCESS!!
help?!!
2007-03-19 06:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is difficult to offer a recomendation without knowing the specifics of what's going on, but I have known guys to go after younger girls, make them feel special, and then leave them when they grow bored of them or when the girl starts asserting herself. Chances are, youre not special to him and he treats all girls he dates this way, he knows what to do to get you to like him, to love him.
The fact that you came here and asked this says you have doubts. Move slowly, and see if he likes you for who you are or if he just treats you like he would a pet, buying it gifts and taking it to fancy restaraunts (who does that to a pet? so fine, pet is a bad analogy here). Talk to him about things that interest you, and see if he feigns interest or actually likes to talk about these things. He may be genuinely interested in you, he may just know how to manipulate you, see if you can tell the difference. Good luck, and I wish you the best.
2007-03-19 06:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not too old for you unless you think he is. However he appears to be more experienced than you so don't allow him to pressurise you into anything you are not ready for. When you have sex make sure it is because you want to and not because some else wants to. it should be a special time for you and only you can make sure it is. Good luck with your relationship
2007-03-19 13:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by mombro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIrl he makes you feel like a princess cause he wants to have sex with you. Just think of it this way, if he don't sleep with you, trust me honey he will find some other girl to bang. And if you decide to sleep with him, YOU will be just another girl to him.
2007-03-19 13:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by latinaseekingfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first decide if you want to be another notch on his bed, second before you even think about having sex with him get him tested, you dont want to pick up anything another girl might have gave him. If he truly loves you then he will wait until you are ready. PLEASE dont rush into sex, i wish i had waited for someone i that was in love with first.
2007-03-19 13:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is talk to on of his ex's and see wat her was like in a relationship. He could be a dog and tryin to get in ur pants but i use to sleep with a lot of grls and realized its immature and its a lot better when ur with someone special. Im with a grl dats younger then me and i dont plan on hurting her in anyway. But i know her past so i trust her because of her past so i suggest to to find out about his past relationships
2007-03-19 13:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by D.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not stay with him. He is a player, like the person before me said. You will only get into trouble.
2007-03-19 13:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but the way your talking about him just sounds like you don't like him to much. He also sounds like he just wants to have sex with you and then dump you.
But that's just from the information that you've given.
2007-03-19 13:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by odd_person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he starts to ask you for sex al ot then he is just thinking of you as another one of his girls but if heasks you and you say no and he respects you for that then maybe he is telling you the truth
2007-03-19 13:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player, he is good at making you feel comfortable to get what he wants, do as u wish...
2007-03-19 13:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋