my Mon and dad don't like my brother best friends. he is my boyfriend what sould I do?
2007-03-19 06:25:08 · 10 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont kill your parents...
u can search for the real reason of their hate
may be he is not the suitable boy for u
look for the truth....find your fate....dp the better for u
2007-03-19 06:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them what they don't like about him - is he a bad boy, rude, does he not respect your family's rules, etc.? Then talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that he should make an effort to improve in these areas, for both your sake and your brother's.
Then, suggest to your parents that they invite your boyfriend and his family over for dinner, so everyone can meet and get to know each other better, and they can see the good things in him that you and your brother see.
2007-03-19 13:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they don't like him. talk to them.. Parents have a lot if intuition when it comes to their children! I have a teenage daughter! I usually get a vibe from her friends and I really like them or my tummy tells me different. Just wait till you have children.. you will see what I am talking about. But I say there must be a reason for the way they are feeling!
2007-03-19 13:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf. jk. try and get them to like him. tell him to be polite. my guy sad as it is put on a good kid "show" for my parents and when he was with me he acted different. at first it bothered me but then it made me realize how important it was for him to impress my family so we could be together. Good Luck =)
2007-03-19 13:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by SMasewicz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with no ages given id say unless u want to live in this constant conflict ask ur parents why open discussion with ur parents willlet them know u are maturing
2007-03-19 13:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. If you're older (16 plus) make up your own mind. If you're younger, listen to them.
2007-03-19 13:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by LARRY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your parents why they don't like him and go from there. Did they like him before you started dating him? Is he a "bad influence" on you?
2007-03-19 13:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they don't like him and try to talk things out.
2007-03-19 13:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom and dad, politely, that you really like this boy. they may be mad but they may understand and let you continuing to see him
2007-03-19 13:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tricky do they have a reason to doubt him ?I think you should talk about your concerns to them.
2007-03-19 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋