I am 300 lbs. but I am pretty. I get tons of compliments all the time, but I dont have a boyfriend. I dont want top settle for less because I'm fat. I feel like some guys are reluctant to date me because I am fat. Some men dont like it, but there are some hwo do. I look a lot like my avatar. Tell the truth, do you look down on a heavy set woman? Are men willing to look past the exterior?
2007-03-19 06:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself the same question. Would you date a 300 lb man who's handsome? I would date a heavy woman,but many guys who are in good shape wouldn't. If you wouldn't date a 300 lb handsome man then your a hypocrite,and if you would you should have no problem finding a man.
2007-03-19 06:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Carl The Green's Keeper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men are stuck on the physical appearance because thats what tv makes them think they have to date. But a real man sohuld get to know you and he will realize that its the inside that matters most. Start off with just being friends with guys and holding conversations with them all the time and eventually they will look at you in a new way. I am the same size and i am also given the same comments. But when I hang out I talk to every body and now I have five boyfriends,young and old. They all love me for me not my size and are all quite jealous. I could tell them to quit being so jealous because noone else wants me but them and they'll go,"Yea Right". Just be yourself. And try not to be soo obviuos when your around others that you feel a bit insecure about your size. You might be more obvious then you think and show low self esteem. Good luck and enjoy life to the fullest. I am.
2007-03-19 06:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by My two cents 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Personallity counts for a lot. If you don't have it there, you never will. I, personally, try not to judge a person by thier weight. I don't always succeed. I wish that it were just about your looks, but sadly there are too many people who take one look at someone & know what to expect. The best thing I can tell you is be yourself. If you like yourself, then the jerks that you have to put up with won't matter. Don't settle, EVER. This is your life, so live it the way you want.
2007-03-19 06:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by jtrevoxen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People do judge others by how they look. But, if someone is a good person inside they will look past the exterior. The old saying of "Don't judge a book by the cover" is a great example. You just make sure that you are a good person in spite of it all and the right one will come along.
2007-03-19 06:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by mikelauramills 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Some people are chubby chasers. Don't worry about it, you'll find a guy soon. Guys who want superfical skinny, aneroxic, women are dumb and only look on the outside. It is the inside that counts! It's like chocalate pudding: some men like it thick, some don't. That's the way the cookie crumbles. Peace!
2007-03-19 06:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by sYnDiA 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have in the past. They had lovely faces and good personalities. Those were pretty good relationships even though the didn't work out in the long run. I'm a thin, attractive guy but I got disgusted with how self-absorbed so many spoiled, skinny girls were at my high school.
I think a bigger concern for you though is health. 300lbs can be dangerous, as my father-in-law is that weight and he has terrible problems with clots in his legs, breathing trouble and heart disease. I'm afraid he may die soon and he is only 55. So, for your good health, I hope you are working on it.
2007-03-19 06:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Moore 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you ought to supply up being a jerk and date a woman in keeping together with her character. Yo? ok, i'm guessing you're in center college. boost a sack, be a guy, and spot a woman for her inner splendor. No, i'm no longer gay. i'm mature.
2016-10-19 02:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy really likes you he wont care about your weight and real beauty is on the inside anyways and yes i would date a overweight girl.
2007-03-19 06:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by William P 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i used to be fat too and my pretty face got even prettier without all the fat on it. lose weight. its the hardest thing u probably will have to do but its so worth it. i am treated like a totally different person now. the world isnt kind to fat people. its sad but true
2007-03-19 18:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by yea baby 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
larger women that can carry themselves and make it work... MORE POWER TO YOU.
some women wouldn't look good skinny... my friend prefers larger women and his wife is a larger woman... 245lbs or so... use to be 280 when they met.
it's all preference.... just like girls... some girls like a chunkier guy with love handles.... i like my guy built.. and most of them have been but it's not all on looks i've dated guys who were just average and not likeomghotness lol. if you have confidence in yourself and carry yourself with a stride then you are a wonderful person and best of luck to you in all you do.
2007-03-19 06:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋