i really really really really like him and hes free right now.
2007-03-19 06:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Rebecca,
Let me ask you this...if you think he likes you as a "best buddy", and you started dating him and maybe break up later and you lose him as your "best buddy", would you then wish you'd left your friendship at the best buddy stage rather than lose that relationship?
Look, a lot of times, a dating relationship can ruin a good friendship. You need to ask yourself what is more important to you. Leaving things as they are, he may eventually get around to asking you out. Maybe not. In any case, I'd be patient if his friendship is really important to you.
To sort of paraphrase an old saying, "a best friend in the hand is worth 2 boyfriends in the bush", if you know what I mean. Boyfriends will come & go, best friends are much harder to get & keep. I myself would rather keep a good friendship alive.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 06:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shouldn;t try 2 rush him, u can give him little clues such as flirting and wanting to spend time with him alone. maybe tell a relationship story about what kind of boys you like and use him as an example.
use some of theses:
call him boo
tease him and play with him alot
when talking on the phone, talk to him as you would if you were going with him
2007-03-19 13:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by stallion ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try teasing him and flirting with him. Touch him on the arm and soon you will know if he is interested by his reaction. Don't listen to the words, his body will tell the truth.
2007-03-19 13:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by celtic_hd_heritage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear more provocative clothing..
Lots of casual body contact..
Stand very close when talking to him, touch him..
Lots of eye contact..
2007-03-19 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab it. You know what I mean.
2007-03-19 13:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time, he's not interested in you that way.
2007-03-19 13:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋