we're just having close family at our actual ceromony (less than 10 people) but we're inviting everyone else to our reception. what do i put on the invitations? i dont want everyone to think we're just inviting them to the reception for the gifts and i also want to make sure they know its only the reception not the ceromony
You are cordially invited to
a formal reception to honor
the union in marriage of
Bride Jones
and
Groom Doe
taking place at
Hall Name, Townsville, ST
on
Saturday, February 31, 2008
at 5:00pm
Mr & Mrs Parents
Request the Honor of your Presence
At a Formal Reception
After their Daughter Bride exchanges marriage vows
with Groom Last Name
on Someday, Some Date
At Some Reception Facility, Anywhere, USA
OR you could say
Bride & Groom Request the Honor of your presence at a reception following their marriage ceremony
OR you could say
Bride & Groom will be married in a private ceremony on Someday, Someyear
We would be honored if you were to share in our joy at a reception immediately following
Someplace
Somecity, Somestate
It would be great if your photographer were to take digital pictures, then upload them to a computer in between and play them for your guests during cocktail hour, so that they didn't feel left out.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 06:24:37
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basically married here. And we went with the aid of some thing comparable. What we did grow to be an invitation syaing "you're invited to attend our happy wedding ceremony reception following a private rite" on condition that we pinted our very own we basically made some say rite and reception, and a few say reception following inner maximum rite. yet you ought to be waiting to easily placed on the little card, you're formally invited the to a private rite commencing at...blah blah blah. sturdy success! One advice if i'm going to... Take some minues at your wedding ceremony to take a seat down by utilising your self, or stroll away and look interior. all your difficult artwork will pay off, and that's super to make certain it, and take all of it in. My spouse and that i spent hours upon hours on making plans and info and basically each and every little ingredient apprehensive us, of direction issues went incorrect, yet until eventually we informed people they wouldnt have even understand. It grow to be the perfect day, yet we experience like we missed it slightly because of the fact we so apprehensive approximately chatting with all people and what time it grow to be, and have been we on time table.
Don't worry, most people only want to come to the reception anyway - people get mad when they get invited to the "boring" ceremony (not calling yours boring, but lets face it, unless you are in the wedding or very close to the people in the wedding, it can be a little dull - especially if it's drawn out) and then not the reception. You can put something like "following a small private ceremony, please join us in celebration at such n such place" Or don't mention the wedding at all. If less than 10 people know about the wedding location, just don't mention it. Good luck.
You ARE inviting them just for the gifts. OK, that's a bit harsh sounding. You're inviting them just for a party.
As such, your invitation should make it clear that they are being invited to a party. Not a wedding reception. Do you understand the difference?
So, something like the following: "You are invited to a dinner to celebrate the recent marriage of Mr. John Doe to Ms. Sally Smith."
Note the word "recent." It's important.
Expect some people to decline to give you a gift. Expect others to refuse to attend because they see this as a gift grab. Expect others to feel happy that they don't have to sit through the ceremony.
At the "reception," don't come in with your wedding gown. It's not a reception. It's a post-marriage party.
We, BRIDE'S FIRST NAME and GROOM'S FIRST NAME,
will be married in a
private wedding ceremony
on DAY, the FORMAL DATE of MONTH
YEAR
You are joyfully invited to a celebration
after the wedding
at RECEPTION TIME o'clock in the RECEPTION TIME OF DAY
RECEPTION LOCATION
RECEPTION ADDRESS
RECEPTION CITY, RECEPTION STATE
Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Jay Thomas
request the pleasure of your company
at a reception to help celebrate the marriage
in honor of
Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas James Brown (you)
Saturday, the twentith of August
at eleven thirty o'clock in the morning
1234 Main Street
Anytown, New York
Another suggestion would be:
Please join us as we celebrate the union
of our lives and our families
at a luncheon
at eleven thirty o'clock in the morning
1234 Main Street
Anytown, New York
Mr and Mrs John Smith request the pleasure of yor company for an evening of dinner and dancing in celebration of the marriage of their daughter
Jane Smith
to Joe Jones