How Can I Keep Him Secure??

Question

i'm a model and on occassion i have to travel to do photo shoots... i'll be traveling at the end of this month to kansas city and then in april to texas.

sometimes, i feel that my bf doesn't like me modeling and worries... when i travel if he can't afford to come with he can't go... but on local shoots he's allowed to come with me but not be in the room when i'm shooting (creates a distraction)

how can i make him secure that nothing is going on during my photo shoots.

i only model on weekends... during the week i'm a receptionist... modeling isn't my full time job... i work 40 hours a week then model on my off days.

Answer 1

Keeping him secure starts when you are at home. Just keep reminding him that he is the one you chose, Make him feel appreciated. Say thank you when he does something for you-even something small. Tell him that you love him (if you do) and tell hiim often, Be physical- hold his hand, brush his arm when you walk by, pat him on the tush. The little things count a lot!

Answer 2

To be honest, I'd stop modeling. It has a bad reputations and ties to the porn industry. Same with stripping.

I understand his concerns. It isn't you he doesn't trust, but the other guys constantly hitting on you.

Answer 3

find another job...being a model is putting u in the light of suspection (other may think that u r not virgin...and do sex all the time)
so u have to sacrifice

Answer 4

you just need to tell him that you love him very much and that he's the only one your interested in. that's what guys want to hear. they need reasurement.

Answer 5

if you have to ask about that then there is plently more your going to have to ask.

Answer 6

he either trusts you or he doesn't.