I where i work there's a warehouse. Well everytime i go back there this guy back there always making comments (nothing bad) but i have told him that i have a man. He brings me roses which i end up giving back...I don't want to get anyone in trouble you know but how do i make him stop?
2007-03-19 05:53:31 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you are flattered by his attention, however you are currently involved with another and you would appreciate if he could respect that.
If he does not cease you will have to tell him flat out that you are not interest and to stop now. Inform him that it is best if you can work this out now, or you will have to take this to human resources to work out.
At least you started out politely, some people do not get the point.
If he still doesn't stop, talk to human resources or whoever is in charge of employee relations.
2007-03-19 05:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're uncomfortable. Men usually respond to that. Tell him this..."I did tell you I have a bf, right?...I'm just making sure because when you give me a rose or make comments it makes me a little uncomfortable and I would like it to stop." Plain and simple. You can even write a letter so that you have proof in case you do need to take it to Human Resources. It's usually easier to get your point across in a letter.
2007-03-19 06:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki Mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be completely up front and bluntly honest with him. tell him you are in a committed relationship, you don't want to pursue anything with him and it makes you uncomfortable when he brings you things. if he respects you, he'll back down. tell him that.
2007-03-19 05:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋