How close are you to your sister/brother? Do you feel you will be this close in the future even when you go your seperate ways in life? My sister and I are closer than ever even now that i have a family and a different life...but i fear when she graduates and goes off to college and gets married and starts her family, we wont hardly ever talk any more...Do you have any advice?
2007-03-19 05:47:32 · 6 answers · asked by Faith 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
iIts funny but i was talking about this the other day with my hubby,my mum moved to Brighton to be nearer her sisters,one of my brothers is going to live in Spain and i really do believe families seem to get closer as the years go by so please don't worry if you all go your own way for a wile I'm sure it will all fan out for the best .sue
2007-03-19 07:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by susiesnowdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my Sister is already graduated and is in college living in her own apartment, im in tenth grade but we are still very close..
My Brother and me are 15 years apart he has his own family now, but we are still close.
you will still have a close bond with them, just make sure you dont stop talking, i say you should call eachother like every week, at least once to keep the closeness, go out for lunch or coffee with them once ina while.
hope i helped.
2007-03-19 12:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by CarLee Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking too much and too far away.
this is called stress my dear.
best is let things go. let her grow up and have her own life. my own sister has been a bloody mother on me for years, and when i got married and she kept nosing in my business, she got the biggest slap ever on her face, and now she controls to treat me normal like every other friend.
DON'T BE TOO OVERPROTECTIVE! SISTERS AND BROTHERS HATE IT! WE ALREADY HAVE ONE MOTHER, WE DON'T WANT ANOTHER ONE!
And if your relationship is good now, it will be good forever. Don't worry too much, not worth it! Life can change from one day to the other...
2007-03-19 12:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like u have a very close relationship now.......dont worry about what will happen a year or two down the line. Enjoy each other now
2007-03-19 12:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happend to me. Thank the Lord for e-mail, IM,phone and letters through the mail! Oh, and holidays(my bro comes home for most holidays)!
2007-03-19 12:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No thats life
2007-03-19 12:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋