My Ex-boyfriend and I have been on and off for the past 2 and 1/2 years. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me with all his too. But this past time we broke up he told me it was because his mom didnt want me and him talking. See my mom has forbidden me from seeing him and his my mom wants to respect my moms wishes. well obviouslly we broke up again and now I find out last tuesday that he went ang got a girlfriend. He didnt even tell me. We still talk. And no matter what I always will love him. But its hard for me to believe that he loves me the way he says he does when he has a girl friend. Even now he still wants to talk as if nothing is differnt with us. He has emailed me like 6 emails telling me he still cares but I dont know how true that is. I cant talk to him while he is with her and yet I cant not talk to him either. I want him more then life itself! What should I do? I need help! Remember we still love each other and yeh its wrong to go against my mom, I love him!
2007-03-19 05:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by M.J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its been one week and two days since I found out that he had a girlfriend. At 1st of course I was pissed but now I find a real hate for him. See Tuesday I talked him and he told me that one of the times in the last year that we were seperated he slept with his cousins neighbor and that he got a hand job from some girl at the roller rink. He dont even have any remorse for his actions. But I am starting to move on. I dont need him. He might be one of my best friends but not a good boyfriend for me. I hope he is happy with his new girl. As for me...I got a new guy that I am talking. I am nervous and for the 1st time in almost a year and a half I feel that I can trust this guy. If it works out!
Now I need your guys help! What should I do about this new guy! For all I care my ex can have his new girlfriend...but how do I get this new guy. I know he likes me and I like him back but its been so long since I have played the game. Give me your ideas. Anything you have!
2007-03-22 04:45:50 · update #1
Honey, if he loved you he wouldn't have another girlfriend. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. How old are you? You should move on with your life. Hang out with friends, date around. If he is your first love you probably feel like he is the only one for you. That feeling will pass when you meet someone who respects you and who really loves you. You most likely want him so bad, because it is true you always want what you can't have. Meaning he is taken by another girl. He is toying with your emotions by still talking to you while he is with someone else. Tell him to leave you alone, quit answering his calls & emails. If he continues to bug you tell his girlfriend "Can you please tell Bob to stop emailing and calling me!" Say it nicely & I promise he will stop then!
2007-03-19 05:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by texas mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give each other some space if u love someone walk away if its there in a year it was meant to b u dont cite ur ages but im guessin u are both under the consenting age of adulthood and if u read ur question i dont know how true that is should tell u that u are having trust issues with him follow ur gut instinct if he already has a g/f as u state why would u need another womans problem if hes cheating on her with u then hes cheating on u with somebody else move on dump unless u like being treated like a doormat and only u can answer that
2007-03-19 12:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always steal him from the girlfriend. I wouldnt think it would be that hard considering past history and current feelings.
You could also just move on to the next guy... lots of fish in the pond.
ps: why does your mom forbid you from seeing him?
2007-03-19 12:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by random/\me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sur ehow old u r. but i think he is jus tryin to do wut ur mom and his mom wants. i think he still wants to be with you. he may only have a girl to show his mom he is listenin to her. his mom probably told him that if its meant to be then it wont matter if u cant be together now. if your suppose to be together then u will. u shold try and talkt o ur mom and explain how much u love him and ifnd out y she dont want u seein him. goodluck.
2007-03-19 12:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like his actions speak louder than words, are you sure he wasn't lying about his mom not wanting you two to see each other anymore?
2007-03-19 13:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cheap *** excuse. Dont give him another thought. True love knows no bounds.......
2007-03-19 12:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2007-03-19 12:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋